I haven't had the spaghetti but I thought the chicken parm was gross. They over cooked the noodles by a lot. I like my pasta right at or slightly past al dente. Tony's were almost mush. Then the sauce wasn't what I like either. The actual chicken breast was great though! So seeing as the spaghetti and sauce were what I did NOT like about the chicken parm, I really can't recommend either.
We did have lunch there in 2008 and the flatbread was great. If I ever go back (which I'm not rushing to do any time soon), I will probably do lunch again for the flatbread.
Oh, and the "tiramisu" was more like tiramisu flavored pudding when we got it. No ladyfingers in either of our portions. Maybe it was just that we got the last of a tray or something. I was disappointed though. FYI