I don't now how to link to a thread but there's a "Cake Chatter" thread on the restaurant board that has all kinds of information on how to order a cake at Disney. We are going to be celebrating our son's 4th birthday next week. Our original plan was to do Pirate's League with him but then I started worrying about the heat and the makeup and what if he wants to go swimming in the afternoon...Seemed like just not a great idea. Our new plan is to head over to Fort Wilderness with him for the day. If your son is outdoorsy, I highly suggest you look into the activities they have there. We are going to do the pony rides, visit the horse stable, maybe rent a canoe, and do the wagon ride.