I thought I had posted an update before we went on our cruise and then visited WDW afterwards, but obviously I didn't push the right button or my computer didn't finish

I had received a call back from the CM/Park Duty Manager at DHS and the outcome was that after discussion with some higher ups there is now a file on my son with all of the background of our story and that from now on all I would need to do was go by Guest Services and give them the file number and they would issue a blue tag and mark it child driver. He did say, I did not have to have the blue tag and it was up to me if I wanted to stop or not, but that it was all in place now and we should not be delayed again. While this won't necessarily help others, it at least was in place for our trip that was coming up fast. I did tell him that it did not address other child
ECV drivers and what should they do. He suggested calling the Special Needs Services number and trying to get the same thing in place before travel or upon entry to the first park.
So after our cruise we went to EPCOT and headed straight to guest services. Well.....I was told I had to wait again for a Park Duty Manager because they do not allow children under 18 to drive an ECV. So much for the file! I had to wait over 30 minutes until 2 Park Duty Managers came from the International Gateway entrance. They told me I would have to wait for a Park Duty Manager each time I had to get a new blue tag (1 per trip- not daily) They also said that EPCOT would be the only park I would have to wait more than a couple of minutes as they have 2 Guest Service offices. Well that is not true as I had to wait longer at DHS when I was waiting for the Park Duty manager the last time. All of this is not acceptable, but after several other CM comments and attitudes, I needed time to decompress before tackling the matter. For those who will say, just forget the tag, I had to point to it several times in the few hours we were there. Most of the time the CM would then nod and smile. Several others still made negative comments or handled it inappropriately. The worst was when we were about halfway through the queue for Journey into Imagination and a CM came running up from somewhere, chasing my son down, yelling "No! No! He can't be driving that! He is not old enough! Stop!" I showed her the blue tag and she argued with me and I explained that there is a file on him and I had already dealt with the Park Duty Managers and he is allowed to drive his personal ECV.
My son had a great time this last time as he is still learning the english language and doesn't really understand that it is all about him using his
scooter, but unfortunately WDW went from a place I looked forward to and loved to visit to now a feeling of dread about returning. My choice seems to be 1) take away the independence he has using his scooter (which is his daily mobility device) and push him in a wheelchair 2) wait until he is a few years older and in a power wheelchair(which then means he won't be able to do many of the rides he can now) 3) go and have a stressed filled trip for me, but hopefully fun for my kids. 4) Go higher up in Disney to try to find a better approach to a child using a personal ECV- but still may boil down to the first 3 choices as who knows how long that may take and due to the progression of my sons DMD he may be at option 2 by then.