I am paraplegic and have been since shortly after my DD was born. I have no idea how in the world you would push a stroller from a wheelchair. My now 16 yo old rode on my lap everywhere including
Disneyland and Disney World. At a very young age I taught her how to hold on facing me, by 5 she was facing forward, balanced and holding on. I can't imagine how we would have done all we did in life when it was just the two of us if she did not ride on my lap. Now she is too tall (can't see over her) at 16 but I sure miss those days.