Some of them still may not work - even though the weight might be OK, the height might not be. So not o etching I would probably buy without trying.thank you so much, starshine! I didn't realize they made strollers that were a bit bigger. DD (almost 6) is 44 lbs (hers went to 40lbs.) and she was also too tall to be comfortable the last few times we used it. We'll head out and let her try some out this weekend.
that's why we've decided to go in person instead of ordering one online-to make sure she's ok height and comfort-wise, too.
I am paraplegic and have been since shortly after my DD was born. I have no idea how in the world you would push a stroller from a wheelchair. My now 16 yo old rode on my lap everywhere including Disneyland and Disney World. At a very young age I taught her how to hold on facing me, by 5 she was facing forward, balanced and holding on. I can't imagine how we would have done all we did in life when it was just the two of us if she did not ride on my lap. Now she is too tall (can't see over her) at 16 but I sure miss those days.
You may have more stroller options than you think for your 5-yr-old, although she may have outgrown her stroller, there are some standard ones that go up to 50 or 55 lbs (I'm just guessing at her weight, as my DD5 is still less than 45 lbs).
Here are a few options I found on Amazon w/ higher weight limits:
http://www.amazon.com/The-First-Yea...=UTF8&qid=1344881128&sr=1-3&keywords=stroller
http://www.amazon.com/Jeep-Cherokee...=UTF8&qid=1344881128&sr=1-2&keywords=stroller
http://www.amazon.com/The-First-Yea...UTF8&qid=1344881128&sr=1-12&keywords=stroller
http://www.amazon.com/Maclaren-Volo...UTF8&qid=1344881337&sr=1-31&keywords=stroller
http://www.amazon.com/Inglesina-201...UTF8&qid=1344881473&sr=1-73&keywords=stroller
I don't own any of these strollers, but you may want to look at them (or others, I just did a quick search) as options, as then you DD could have a stroller in the airport as well (you can take it all the way up to the gate and gate-check it for her for free with most airlines). One I noticed was less than $40, so still cheaper than renting at the park if you think she'll need it elsewhere.