Child dies after "bonding therapy"

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It's things like this that make me wonder what this world and its inhabitants are coming to.

PROVO, Utah — A couple has been charged in the death of their 4-year-old adopted daughter through water-intoxication, an unconventional technique their lawyer said was recommended by family therapists to promote bonding.


Richard Killpack, 34, and Jennete Killpack, 26, were charged Monday with homicide and child abuse. They were not arrested and were awaiting a court summons, defense attorney Philip Danielson said Tuesday.

Prosecutors said Cassandra Killpack was forced to drink so much water it lowered the concentration of sodium in her blood, causing fatal brain swelling.

Danielson said the parents were dealing with a girl who was physically and sexually abused before being adopted and wasn't bonding with her new parents. He said the Cascade Center for Family Growth in Orem promoted forced water drinking for children with "attachment disorder" and that it was supposed to teach children to go to their parents for relief and comfort.

"These parents had no intention of hurting their child. In fact, all this was done in an attempt to help the child through an extreme emotional problem," Danielson said.

Center director Larry Van Bloem denied that his therapists promoted forced water drinking. "No, we never recommend it," he told The Daily Herald of Provo. Danielson accused the center of disavowing the practice to avoid criminal liability.

The Killpacks called 911 on June 9 when their daughter was having difficulty breathing. She died early the next day.

Danielson said the Killpacks gave their daughter three glasses of water but that prosecutors were alleging it was more.

"The question boils down to whether this was reckless behavior," Danielson said.
 
And this poor girl, who has never trusted anyone is supposed to feel comfortable going to someone for help? What has it gotten her in the past... shoot, what did it get her this time?

Sorry, but common sense should have told these parents it wasn't a good idea! They should be charged with child endangerment, and the counselors should be charged with murder!
 
I agree. What ever happened to simple common sense?
 

can someone explain how drinking water in excess encourages a child to go to the parent for comfort? I don't get it.
 
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Originally posted by goofygirl
How many kids have to die before a licence to parent is implimented?

Well in this case they were adoptive parents so they pretty much went through the process of being quesitioned and 'getting licensed' to receive a trial. So your little parenting licence theory doesn't really apply here.:rolleyes:

Prayers to the little girl. :(
 
This is very sad indeed. I believe it was last year another little girl died during "bonding therapy". They put pillows around her and on her and pressed, trying to create a womb experience so she would feel like she was being born again to her adoptive parents. The poor thing ended up being suffocated.

They should make a law that prohibits this type of "therapy".
 
Um... huh? :confused: Drink water = bond? I'm totally confused as to why anyone would think this would work??

That poor child, and (to some degree) those poor parents. :(
 
That is a sad story. I just think some folks are out to look for a quick fix to problems instead of working it out thru time and patience.
Or maybe they were desperate and believed the snake oil salsmen.
I don't know.:(
 
I saw an episode of ER with the same topic and all I could think of then was this tv show is getting dumber, who would do something so stupid, well now I know, hope these parents didnt get the idea from that show.
 
Actually, and unfortunately this is a real problem, and no one got the idea from ER...far from it... shows like ER tend to mirror things that are already wrong with society... not cause more problems.
 
sorry to have to be the one to tell you this but people copy things all the time from watching tv or movies or just listening to music, I was just in hopes that show didnt trigger any ideas.
 














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