becky, leave the kids at home with mr becky and come to the motherland with me..........
That would work if my kids weren't already Disneyfied. I might have a mutiny on my hands if I left them home with Mr. Grump while I went to the Motherland. It would NOT be a good scene.
Becky ALex and I are going the first week of Sept. We could help with the kiddo's if you can swing that
Unfortunately, can't quite swing it right now. It will be a while before we can afford to go again plus I want to get the youngest potty trained (maybe before he gets to Kindergarten!

My boys are slow trainers but it's partly my fault -- diapers are easier -- I hate the "in-between" stage where you need to find bathrooms instantly or you might have an accident).
Although if I went with just the kids the trip would be a LOT cheaper! DH wants to go on the Premium plan again plus that makes us a family of 6. So accomodations are higher. IF it was just the kids & I, we would NOT need the Premium plan at all & we would only be a family of 5.
Lots and lots to do today, and it's suppossed to rain

I hate being in the rain.
Can you believe these cold temps that are coming????

When I bought Stephanie's sleevless Easter dress, I knew there was a possibility of it being chilly, but not like winter

Katie's dress is almost identical to Stephanie's, but it came with a cute little jacket made out of the same material (something you see on toddler dresses). Thank goodness Stephanie has a white sweater that she can wear in church on Easter Sunday
Becky - I'm sorry you and your DH disagree on vacation

What type of places does he like to go? Would he enjoy Disney more if you stayed off property and did some other things with Disney, like Sea World and Universal?
DD will be very happy it rained. She forgot her sweats for gym class & they were going outside this week. As we were driving her to school since she had to go early for special choir, she said "maybe it will rain, then we won't go outside" -- I didn't think it was going to but started raining before the boys got to school. I'm sure she was doing one of these

when the rain started pouring down.
DD's dress I'm making is no sleeves too, I keep trying to convince her I should add some sleeves to it but she is having no part of it. It comes with a wrap (stole? is what it's called on the package) but really the material we got for that is basically a sheer one, not really going to keep anyone warm. Our sanctuary is always freezing too, so I'm thinking she will just have to borrow my white sweater I have.
As for DH and his vacation -- he tells me his idea of a perfect vacation is "a cabin in the woods just sitting around fishing" -- yeah, right -- we have been married almost 16 years -- want to know how many times he has gone fishing on his own in that time or taken the kids fishing? NEVER! The only time I have known him to go fishing is when he went at Disney. That's it and he wouldn't have done that if I hadn't scheduled it. I honestly think he's full of it, he's just being hard headed because he doesn't like rides and/or crowds of people.
He wants to go to Yellowstone. My beef with that is I think the kids are too young for Yellowstone -- mostly the little guy (plus my complete paranoid that one of my kids is going to get attacked by a bear, bison or other wildlife and/or fall into a geyser or otherwise kill or maim themselves.) I would really rather go to Disney while the kids are still little and wait until they are a bit older to appreciate sitting around watching Old Faithful erupt (plus have the patience to sit around waiting on a geyser!

A 3 year old just doesn't have that type of patience!!!)
I can tell you what is going to happen -- BTDT enough to know...he's going to go watch the geysers and see the mud pots and that will take a couple hours, then we are going to have TONS of time to kill with nothing to do (looking at the places to stay in the park are pretty rustic) but don't know if I want to stay outside and try to drive around, Yellowstone is HUGE. He will end up sitting in the hotel room in the evening watching TV while I'm bored out of my mind with the 4 kids. If we stay at a place with a pool at least 3 of the kids could go swimming (my 6 year old doesn't care for water so probably would end up sitting in the hotel room watching TV with dad).
So we go round & round with this. He did agree with me for Disney in 2009 & now he says "you never go anywhere *I* want to go" -- Hmmm...the deal when we got married was odd years were my vacation spot choices & even years were his so these type of arguments wouldn't take place. So much for *that* theory!!!!

I knew we had different personalities for vacations way back when. I thought that would take care of it, basically just suck it up and go the places you don't like (and don't complain!) because the other person will do the same on their year. What *was* I thinking?
Let's see in the early part of the marriage even year we did Atlanta to go watch him do Richard Petty driving for a day; went to TN to see Nashville & Graceland; went to Charlotte to have him do Richard Petty driving again. None of those were any that were very high on my list to go see but I went and didn't complain because of our deal.
Oh, my vacations? I was pregnant, we bought a house, I was pregnant, had a newborn, etc...

Those all happened on odd years so we never went anywhere -- until we finally did Disney in 2005 & he didn't want to go there the 1st time either. I think I did get to pick the honeymoon too (Poconos) which was an odd year. So, it just is one of my hot buttons that he goes and says we never go anywhere he wants to go -- what the heck? Every "odd" year I gave it up due to it was bad timing. While he was off driving during Richard Petty I had DD & DS (who was not even 2) at the time to keep occupied at a racetrack -- not exactly a lot for a toddler to do. Let's see 2007 is an odd year -- know where we are going? No where.

Now, yes there are some of "his" years we didn't go anywhere either but I think he's gotten a few more of vacations of where *HE* has wanted to go than I have (unless he is counting my 2 days in the hospital to have the babies my vacation? Not that it would have been my choice.

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In the grand scheme of things it's not a horrible argument but just one of those pesky ones that I just want to slap him upside the head for since his attitude needs an adjustment. Even with me NOT really wanting to go to Yellowstone, I have done research on it & look for things to do that I would enjoy and I know even if it's not my ideal choice, I will make the best of it and won't be complaining and making it known just how much I really don't want to go. Maybe I should start (he would just turn it around on me though & use it as a reason not to do Disney)?
