I'm sure you meant no harm in saying retarded Mindy. I thought it was funny!
Well, since I spent most of my day on the phone

we never made it to the grocery store either. So Hunter and I will do that while Lauren is in school. It's kinda nice her being in school. I can go back to grocery shopping without yelling at both kids to calm down and stay by me. This is my mantra in the stores.

I call Lauren the Pied Piper. She leads her brother all over the place and he willingly follows. When she's not around he NEVER leaves my side. I don't even have to say anything to him, he's just really good.
Some other good news: I spoke with my old friend/co-leader for my Brownie troop today, her daughter wants to return to our troop and she wants to help me with the troop again!!

I'm really excited about this, as we really got along.
One of the calls I got today was from one of my troop girl's moms. She was telling me how her and another mom from the troop were discussing how I might not be up to handeling the troop and how they can take care of things if needed.

What???? Am I hearing that right?

I haven't heard from any of them for over a month, way before my procedure, and they are talking about my condition without even knowing how I am.

Don't you think one of them would have called me and asked me how I was before discussing things they don't know about??
At a meeting I went to last week, another leader told me how she heard about my health issues from one of my mom's. She was calling this mom to see if she could help with summer camp back in June. When the mom said she couldn't the leader said she would call me instead. And my mom told her "oh, no, don't bother calling her. She's unable to do anything....blah blah blah."
So the leader thought that I wasn't taking calls.
It's one thing to tell someone so and so is not well, but to tell them not to call someone is rude.
I am thankful this is my last year as a leader!!