Chatterbox Hyena Thread (Everyone is Welcome)

[Alex2kMommy]

Well, my friend called me again and I picked up...I told her I didn't want to talk to her until she decides what she is doing is wrong...I could almost see it if her hubby was a looser, didn't work, if they were terrible....he has no idea...he works out of town most of the time...brings home paycheck,,,,sends her little gifts, takes her out on special dates etc...he has never missed a major holiday...I could go on forever...

I told her all of these things...she has no plans of leaving him...she is now afraid I am going to tell...I am not saying a word...I don't want in it...I can't do it to him....when DH finds out though I am not so sure he wont...

Ohhh, that's terrible. That whole situation just stinks.

I knew a gal who divorced young with a small child. She met this really great guy who was older, treated her like a princess and loved her little boy like his own. They were married for like 10 years when she suddenly had an infatuation with another man and left her loving DH. I was totally floored! We'd been close before, but not at the time I found out about the other guy, so I don't know whatever happened there, just that her DH had been devastated to lose her and the boy all in one fell swoop!

Another gal married young to her HS sweetheart, they'd been happily married for 20 years when she started working part-time with a couple of younger single women who "got around". She apparently decided the grass was greener, but didn't bother to tell her DH, who totally supported her financially. She house-sat for one of the single gals when she went out of town, and started sleeping around. Then when the friend came back, she stayed put, and told her poor sap of a husband that she needed some time to herself. But she needed to get a place of her own, so HE RENTED her a place!

He paid all her bills and everything while she was sleeping around with who knows what (one of whom turned out to be a 16yo boy she met on the internet, OMG!)

Finally after 2 or 3 years of this, she asks for a divorce and in it demands that he pay for her living expenses and health care insurance for the rest of her life. DH and I, if we hadn't been so disgusted, would have laughed ourselves silly at the audacity!

I guess that didn't go as she wanted, because the last time we saw her she had an office job (not her "dream job") to pay the bills, and I believe her 16yo playmate had turned 18yo and moved in with her (to sponge off her awhile before he finally landed a job.) DH called her a pedophile and wanted nothing to do with her. (She's older than I am!)

 

[Alex2kMommy]

Thats a tough call. You should tell her that SHE needs to tell her husband before someone else does.......leave it at that. that might scare the crap out of her.

Absolutely! If they're behaving like that out in public where they're likely to bump into friends and family, you are not the first and only person who will ever see them. UGH!

 

[Mkgaapril]

I am heart broken...we have shared our kids births, our weddings and all the secrets that not everyone knows except for your best gal pal....

I am also upset that she didn't talk to me about how she was feeling...but I think she didn't because she knew what I would say...

She knows what I went in my my divorce and it was awful.....I just can't be around her now....maybe later but not now...

 

[Alex2kMommy]

That is a neat concept though. Jake likes Build a Bear but would like a car place better!

Yeah, my boys would GO NUTS in that place!!!

I did tell her to tell him, and that I wasn't going to talk to her until she did,,,her reply was,,I guess we won't talk because I can't do that....

THEY HAVE 4 KIDS...

Someone WILL tell her DH, it's a matter of when, not if. That is a dumb call on her part.

I just have no respect or understanding for people who do that. Especially if they still sleep with their spouse, exposing them to diseases without their knowledge/consent. That's disgusting!

 

[Mkgaapril]

yea, I ask her did she think she wouldn't be seen by one of us only 15 mins from home???

I ask what was so bad about her hubby that she is doing this...and she said NOTHING...ITS JUST SOMETHING I AM GOING THROUGH...AND ITS NOT FOR YOU TO JUDGE ME.....ARE YOU KIDDING ME..

she wants me not to tell my DH but I can't do that...if he finds out I know about it and said nothing to him it causes me problems...

and I don't think its ok

 

[Alex2kMommy]

I am heart broken...we have shared our kids births, our weddings and all the secrets that not everyone knows except for your best gal pal....

The one gal I know who cheated on her husband (especially with the 16yo, ewwww!), it was like she went off the deep end. She was never a slutty type of person, in fact her DH was the only man she'd ever been with. According to her, that's the reason she wanted to sleep around, because she was dissatisfied with that aspect of life with her DH. So she went from being a pampered housewife to struggling to pay bills, being totally unrealistic about how to manage her money, and literally starving herself. It was like she'd lost her mind, and we just didn't even know what to say to her when we saw her. (Oh, and out of my presence she also offered to "help DH out" if he ever needed it. OMG!)

 

[Mkgaapril]

I would snap her neck if she did that...

 

[Mkgaapril]

I have just lost my childhood friend...it feels terrible

 

[AZMickeyfans]

The one gal I know who cheated on her husband (especially with the 16yo, ewwww!), it was like she went off the deep end. She was never a slutty type of person, in fact her DH was the only man she'd ever been with. According to her, that's the reason she wanted to sleep around, because she was dissatisfied with that aspect of life with her DH. So she went from being a pampered housewife to struggling to pay bills, being totally unrealistic about how to manage her money, and literally starving herself. It was like she'd lost her mind, and we just didn't even know what to say to her when we saw her. (Oh, and out of my presence she also offered to "help DH out" if he ever needed it. OMG!)

WOW! just WOW

 

[Mkgaapril]

On an up note,,,,6 days till we leave

 

[Mkgaapril]

I bought my sister a few new outfits and think that this weekend I am going to take her out and buy her 2or 3 more....she really needs them....

She still has no idea that we have added money to her money we put up for her....I can't wait to give it to her....I am proud of myself for not telling her already..

We purchased the baby a wardrobe for her Bday in May so hopefully she is ok, now for my nephew I am not sure what he needs I guess I need to find out

 

[Alex2kMommy]

I have just lost my childhood friend...it feels terrible

I'm so sorry, Gina, that stinks.

Do you think it's a midlife crisis kind of thing? Is this guy an ex-BF or someone she really used to care about?

 

[tinkermell]

yea, I ask her did she think she wouldn't be seen by one of us only 15 mins from home???

I ask what was so bad about her hubby that she is doing this...and she said NOTHING...ITS JUST SOMETHING I AM GOING THROUGH...AND ITS NOT FOR YOU TO JUDGE ME.....ARE YOU KIDDING ME..

she wants me not to tell my DH but I can't do that...if he finds out I know about it and said nothing to him it causes me problems...

and I don't think its ok

Wow! I think you should tell your DH. Like you said...............if he knew, that you knew all along............that could be ALOT of trouble. Besides, if he tells on her..................GOOD!!!! She is wrong wrong wrong and needs to be accountable for it!!!!
And don't you love the line, "and it's not right for you to judge me?" It seems like EVERYTIME SOMEONE DOES THIS, THAT IS THEIR GREAT LINE OF EXCUSE!! I don't think so. Cheating on one's spouse has to be the worse thing to go through. My mom went through the sorrow and loss of trust, and of course divorce, and a family of 4 children were thrown in the mess. It took me a long time to forgive my Dad.

 

[tinkermell]

The one gal I know who cheated on her husband (especially with the 16yo, ewwww!), it was like she went off the deep end. She was never a slutty type of person, in fact her DH was the only man she'd ever been with. According to her, that's the reason she wanted to sleep around, because she was dissatisfied with that aspect of life with her DH. So she went from being a pampered housewife to struggling to pay bills, being totally unrealistic about how to manage her money, and literally starving herself. It was like she'd lost her mind, and we just didn't even know what to say to her when we saw her. (Oh, and out of my presence she also offered to "help DH out" if he ever needed it. OMG!)

That women was wierd!! It grosses me out to think of her dating a 16 year old. And that she offered to help your DH out!!

 

[tinkermell]

I have just lost my childhood friend...it feels terrible

 

[Alex2kMommy]

WOW! just WOW

Yeah, it just amazes me when people can say one thing behind your back and act like a friend to your face.

She and I weren't friends, she and DH met first through work, and the four of us went out to dinner a few times. DH and I both really liked her DH, too. They just seemed so normal for something so bizarre to end up happening!

We bumped into her in the grocery store after she offered her services to DH.

She behaved all phony-nice to me, like we were long-lost friends who'd lost touch. I guess I sort of marvel that people can do that, I could never. I'm polite and all, but I sure as heck am not gonna be all gushy if I can't stand you! DH says it's pretty obvious (at least to him) when I don't like someone, he can tell just by looking at my face.

She ooohed and aaaahed over the kids, then suggested we all (us and she and her boy-toy) get together for dinner sometime. Turns out they live just a mile or so away from us. Gag!

Fortunately DS took off running in the store so I had an excuse to leave the conversation. I told DH afterward that it would be a cold day before I'd have a meal with her again, and he said the same.

 

[dizzyami]

Attn Posters:

Do not fear this next sentence.


It is RAINING in Phoenix for the first time in 5 months!

Flash Flooding is imminent in the streets and washes.





Ok so not at my house yet but it looks like the valley is getting soaked. Still not a drop here. Anyway, streets flooded, cars stuck. Yep good old Monsoon Desert rain. WOOHOO!!!


still wish I could see some at my house considering I turned of my sprinkler. I should turn it back on then it would pour tonight.

You nut Shawna. I probably shouldn't mention I get rain every night

I need new hand towels....I think JCPenney has them on sale online...and sheets...we need a few new sets of those too

Try Kohl's. Irregardless, whatever online place you choose go to coupon cabin or naughty codes. You can find percentages off and usually free shipping

Nevermind about the shoes, don't listen to me. I'm nuts when it comes to buying a purse so I can't talk.

She was out with another man...thats what happened...she walked by me and I knew she saw me so I turned and said her name and she stopped ,,,at that time the bald shrimp came out...its a guy we went to school with and he knows she is married with kids...and to top it off he is a cop...

This wasnt one of those crazy stoms. We have yet to have those this summer unfortunately. I saw a little lightning but never heard anything and didnt get hit with a dust storm. I'm sad about that because I really love those storms. The meteorologist in me comes out!

This was a slow rain (which is rare here) that came from a tropical storm in the Mexican gulf. So not much activity from it but it did bring RAIN!!! I have about .01 in my rain gauge!!!




We are getting a CD when we go to WDW. In fact if you preorder it there you get $25 off! Great price then!!!!

I know I could just send you all my acct info by PM

Super cute pics Shawna - thanks for sharing them

Ok so I spraypainted her face white with my paint program. didnt mean to.

and I had a little fun with it once I was in there.

Not to sound like a broken record - but Shawna YOU ARE A NUT

I hate being put in this position....she has been my friend...one of my best friends since 3rd grade...and we are both 40 this year....but her husband is a friend also.....I am so mad at her for this..

Wow - so sorry Gina

The one gal I know who cheated on her husband (especially with the 16yo, ewwww!), it was like she went off the deep end. She was never a slutty type of person, in fact her DH was the only man she'd ever been with. According to her, that's the reason she wanted to sleep around, because she was dissatisfied with that aspect of life with her DH. So she went from being a pampered housewife to struggling to pay bills, being totally unrealistic about how to manage her money, and literally starving herself. It was like she'd lost her mind, and we just didn't even know what to say to her when we saw her. (Oh, and out of my presence she also offered to "help DH out" if he ever needed it. OMG!)

I know one of those two, granted she didn't go over the deep end, she is just a psycho. She just had a 2nd kid yesterday and I pray that it is really my nephews this time.

I have just lost my childhood friend...it feels terrible

 

[Mkgaapril]

yea, I was going to tell DH last night but he worked late and was all crappy, then the snoring thing...so tonight or in the morning....unless I hear from him sooner...

He will flip his lid...and I think he will talk to her DH...I don't know what she expects...

and I don't know if its a midlife crisis or not but to tell me that I shouldn't judge...give me a break...what if my daughter had seen this....I would have lost my mind..

 

[dizzyami]

Wow. Figure I should throw in some more family drama...BIL's BF got deported. Will probably be an ongoing problem for him since he doesn't like white guys.

And now that my nephews wife had the baby she should go to jail for I believe 3 months....and they now have joint custody of their first child

What the heck is the world coming to???

 

[dizzyami]

yea, I was going to tell DH last night but he worked late and was all crappy, then the snoring thing...so tonight or in the morning....unless I hear from him sooner...

He will flip his lid...and I think he will talk to her DH...I don't know what she expects...

and I don't know if its a midlife crisis or not but to tell me that I shouldn't judge...give me a break...what if my daughter had seen this....I would have lost my mind..

Definitely tell your DH, you don't need to get yourself in more trouble with him. She is definitely lucky your DD didn't see - WOW - the audacity first to do it and second to go in public where people will know her??? WOW.