Lol....you couldn't tell by looking at me if I'm talking on the phone or singing. I press a button on my steering wheel and say, "call mom" and my truck dials my phone and mom's voice comes through my speakers. Talking to mother on the phone with two hands on the wheel is no different than singing to the top of my lungs to my ipod, or listening to the baseball game on my radio.
My life is not that busy, but I have a 40 minute drive to work. I personally hate talking on the phone while I am at home so I use the drive to work to talk to my mother. Mostly it's her talking and me barely listening and saying "uh huh" every now and then, so trust me, it's not that distracting.
I'm just curious because I've noticed the same thing in myself that if I'm having a conversation while concentrating on doing something else, I find myself not really paying attention to what the other person is saying.
My question to those who drive and talk on the cell phone and are aware they aren't really paying attention to the conversation is this......if you're not really listening to what's being said anyway, why even be on the phone while you're driving?
I am a good daughter and call my mom because I love her and she likes to talk to me every other day or so. So I would rather get that done while I am driving rather than at home when I'm trying to clean or take care of the animals or all the other things I need to do while I am home.
Before the accident I very rarely used a cell phone while driving, and I certainly don't use it while city driving. Apparantly, Cousin Eddie, like his own mother, wants to learn things the hard way, I just hope I never have to meet him again. I will give Cousin Eddie this though, he took full responsibility for the accident and was very friendly.