denisem
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As an expectant GrandmotherI have to say that if MY DD was leaving her child with a nanny that she claims was the nanny for a good friend, I'm not so sure I'd insist on meeting her.
My parents never went to the daycare oldest DD went to a couple days/week. We all know how Casey can spin a tale, but I'm sure she was pretty convincing. And always seemed to be willing to have her parents meet some of the people she talked about and then "something" would happen. I don't know...hindsight is 20/20.
But it's definitely weird about Zenaida Gonzalez entering the picture. And they still don't know HOW she would have seen that card Zenaida filled out.
But, MaryAnn - Let me play devil's advocate to see if this fits YOUR circumstances:
- Your DD is a single mom with GD living in your home.
- You are providing financial support, house & care when you are not actively working outside the home.
- Your DD informs you she's given the "nanny" a key to YOUR home.
Wouldn't you have ONCE wanted to meet, speak with, or have current contact info for Zanny?
I have to say that if MY DD was leaving her child with a nanny that she claims was the nanny for a good friend, I'm not so sure I'd insist on meeting her.
My parents never went to the daycare oldest DD went to a couple days/week. We all know how Casey can spin a tale, but I'm sure she was pretty convincing. And always seemed to be willing to have her parents meet some of the people she talked about and then "something" would happen. I don't know...hindsight is 20/20.
I can see someone being less diligent, esp the way Casey can spin a tale (because *I* can't see believing any of it, but I've never had to deal with a child of mine doing that ...I DON'T THINK!
) just falling for her stories and excuses about Zanny the Nanny. I don't think we can all compare ourselves that much to George and Cindy because we don't deal with someone like Casey. Many times I've thought people were idiots for who/what they believe, and then I actually found myself falling for an Internet scam, and let me tell you, I could NOT believe I did. I had become one of those normal-looking people you see on the news who fell for a scam, and you think "How could they?" Well, I did. Luckily, I was only out $6 (and had to cancel my credit card).

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