IDK what the law is in NJ, but in NY adjusters have 48 hours to inspect your vehicle, and that same limit applies to suppliments. (weekends don't count)
I would call your company, and tell them how long it has been since they were contacted about the additional damage, and find out what is taking so long.
I'm also wondering why 4 weeks to repair?? That is a very long time, even with $13000 in repairs. I own a shop, and the $19000 repair we had a few years back took only 2 weeks, and we had to wait for the company that modifies the van bodies to send us a roof. (it was an ambulance)
It's too late now I know, but you (everyone) should always choose their own shop, not just go to whomever the insurance company tells you to use. That shop works for the insurance company, they don't work for you. To become a "Direct Repair" shop, you have to agree to all kinds of money-saving short cuts, including cheaper parts, regardless of what the customer wants. And all reputable repair shops will warranty their work.
Good luck with everything!! You may lose a bit of value on the car, but only if you plan not to keep it long. I always run my vehicles until they don't run anymore (almost), so I wouldn't be affected I guess.
Thanks
My DH is calling the insurance company again today, to see what progress has been made, not holding my breath!
We did actually choose where we wanted the van fixed. The collision center that we choose is acutally in the center of an "auto land" so that way they would have access to Honda parts. The guy we are working with at the collision center said he would probably be able to negotiate with the Honda dealership to get Honda parts at the same price as aftermarket parts, lets hope so!