Capt Mark Garner....role model

CaliforniaDreamin

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I'm just so tired of the MJ threads. I am posting this in honor and memory of a Fallen Soldier from my hometown. His mother was my biology teacher in high school. I just thought this board (no one in particular) could use some perspective. This is not about the wrongs and rights of war. This is about taking a minute to read about a real role model. Again, I'm not stirring the pot. I just want people to think beyond the loss of celebrities for a moment. RIP Capt Garner. Thank you for reading....







Statement from the family of U.S. Army Capt. Mark Garner, 30, native of State Road, North Carolina and graduate of Elkin High School and the United States Military Academy at West Point. Please feel free to forward this along as needed.



Mark was traveling as a passenger in an M-1151 Humvee with a convoy of U.S. Navy Explosive Ordnance Disposal specialists when his vehicle struck an improvised explosive device killing him and another passenger. Other occupants of the vehicle traveling in southeast Afghanistan were injured.



We would like to extend our sincere condolences to the families of Mark’s fallen comrades and the families of the sailors who were injured in the attack. Know that we will pray for their speedy recovery.



Please be praying for the safety of the nearly 200 soldiers in Mark’s company currently fighting this difficult fight as well as dealing with the loss of their company commander. We pray that they will all return safely to Hohenfels, Germany to be with their families.



As difficult as this is to accept, it is made easier by the thought that Mark was happy and content as a Soldier. Mark died doing the job he loved, and we will cherish fond memories of him forever. He was a dedicated Soldier, and we are very proud of him.



There are no words to express how much Mark will be missed by his family and friends and the others who had the privilege to know him. His memory will forever remain in our hearts as people share fond stories of Mark, many of which include comments about his larger-than-life smile and depth of character.



Mark loved his family beyond words, especially his parents, Beth and Don, and his sisters, Jo and Rachel, and often spoke very fondly of his time growing up in the Elkin area. He loved his family, loved his country, loved the Army lifestyle and loved exploring new and exciting places.



He enjoyed running and spending time with his fellow Soldiers, but the two main things he was wild about were his wife and traveling. When questioned he would say he loved traveling and his wife, and nothing could be better than traveling with his wife, Nickayla.

He visited 52 countries in the last 12 years, places where most people never go, such as Indonesia, China, Bulgaria, Transdiniestria and Albania. Mark loved to drive and explore, so most of his travels were by car. He had his free-time travel planned out for three years in advance, but there just was never enough time for all of his ambitious and exciting travel plans. Although we don’t know anything about his last few minutes, he was probably talking to the sailors in his convoy about his travels.



In Elkin and at all his military assignments, including ranger training, Mark was remembered for his positive attitude and friendly smile. Everyone enjoyed being around Mark, because he was always happy and was the ultimate optimist. Although full of confidence, he blushed easily, especially from Nickayla’s antics, which he loved.



Mark was the commander of Company B, 1st Battalion, 4th Infantry Regiment, stationed in Hohenfels, Germany. His unit’s mission in Afghanistan was to support the United Nations International Security Assistance Force as part of Task Force Zabul under the operational control of the Romanian Army.

The Soldiers in Mark’s company not only patrolled their area of operations for enemy activity, but also did development work. This included training and mentoring Afghan National Army and Afghan National Police, establishing schools and health clinics, distributing food and farm equipment and helping health care providers treat diseases in adults and children.
 
Thanks for sharing. My prayers go out to Capt. Garner's wife and family.
 
Thanks for sharing. My prayers go out to Capt. Garner's wife and family.

Thank you so much. I appreciate that so much. I don't want this to turn into a nasty thread....I'm not exploiting this, I swear I'm not. I just have been through this before with a family friend in 2005 who was killed in Iraq one month after his 19th birthday. So I guess I'm a little sensitive when I feel like no one remembers those who aren't famous.
 

My prayers and thought go out to his family. :sad2:

Thank you. Our whole town is heartbroken. This is our towns first casualty in these wars.

I would just like to respectfully request that if you are an MJ fan and feel insulted that I posted this, please start a different thread bashing me. I can take it. But I would like this thread to remain respectful of not just Capt Garner, but all our Fallen Soldiers. Again, it's a plea, not a demand. Please. It would break my heart if this thread turned nasty.
 
Thank you. Our whole town is heartbroken. This is our towns first casualty in these wars.

I would just like to respectfully request that if you are an MJ fan and feel insulted that I posted this, please start a different thread bashing me. I can take it. But I would like this thread to remain respectful of not just Capt Garner, but all our Fallen Soldiers. Again, it's a plea, not a demand. Please. It would break my heart if this thread turned nasty.

On my local news at 6 and 10. They do a segment called Fallen Heroes and they salute and pay respect to a fallen soilder. I wish we could do a post along the same lines
 
Thank you so much. I appreciate that so much. I don't want this to turn into a nasty thread....I'm not exploiting this, I swear I'm not. I just have been through this before with a family friend in 2005 who was killed in Iraq one month after his 19th birthday. So I guess I'm a little sensitive when I feel like no one remembers those who aren't famous.

My DH's aunt served in Iraq for a couple years. I kept her and her soldiers well stocked with treats and emailed her often. At that time, Katrina was a Sgt. in the Army. Unfortunately, she lost several of the soldiers in her care and was injured in a blast herself. I just saw her a couple weeks ago and after a year of being back home, she was finally looking relaxed and carefree.

Whatever anyone's feelings regarding our military presence overseas, we all NEED our U.S. military. For anyone interested, http://www.anysoldier.com is a great site for getting linked up to military personnel serving overseas who would like care packages or just letters of support.
 












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