PrincessShmoo
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When I get new glasses (went directly to progressive lenses when I started wearing glasses), I don't just put them on and expect to wear them 100 percent of the time.Oh man, you guys! I am in trouble with this subject.
I have worn readers for years. Two different ones - one for reading and one for watching tv. Driving wasn't a problem until now.
Sooooo, several months ago I got progressives from Target. I made it into the parking lot before I ripped them off. I knew they were going back and they did within a week. I just could NOT do it. I could hardly walk with them on.
More recently I ordered bi-focals from the Optician that is connected to my doctor's office (for a lot more money). I brought those back, too. They made me a nervous wreck and I was having crying fits just trying to get used to them. Besides, I hated not having mid-range and I hated the way they looked with the line. So, they are changing them into progressives (for even more money). I believe it will be a better quality than Target (?) so I am gonna give them a chance before I wind up with single lenses from the Optician. I think that is my last option.
I just don't think I can do it - with either bi-focals (does anyone wear bi-focals??) or progressives. I have no idea what to do at this point. I know everyone says to give it time. But, I put them on and literally can't stand them. I don't know what to do!
I will keep wearing my old glasses, but, every morning when I get up I put on the new ones for XX amount of time (increasing length of time every other day or so). When I can't stand it any longer, the old ones come back out.
It usually takes about 3-4 weeks to feel fully comfortable with the new glasses (for me), so it is a process and takes time. The hardest thing I had to learn when I first started wearing glasses was getting used to the light reflections on the lenses and my brain learning to ignore them. That and the actually having to look down (with my head, not just my eyes) when going up/down stairs.
I was told by my eye doctor that procedure works best because, after you've been asleep, your eyes will accept whatever correction is put in front of them more readily in the morning. And as the day wears on, you brain just seems to recognize that something is different than it used to be and tells you to give up after a period of time. But each day starts a new cycle.
Typically the people who do best adjusting to progressives are those who never wore glasses before. Then come those who go from single vision to progressive. The people who've already had lined bi-focals do the worst making the adjustment.