can someone give me some advice?

[cindys_castle2011]

Soo, I have a little bitty like tic-tac sized problem, dealing with my boyfriend, Heath. We've only been dating for like 12 days, so I know i shouldn't be flipping out about this but.. I hate it that theres like a 647324632 girls that like him. Theres this one girl that like calls him sweetie and all that, I can't tell him that I don't like that, cause.. he asked me when we first started dating if i was going to make him stop texting all the girls he usually texts, and i told him no, cause i really don't care. it doesnt bother me, but this girl kinda does bother me. Do you think, that as we get closer and keep on dating that he will kinda stop texting them, I know that he once liked some of them, so idk. But, I was with my friend last night and we jokingly texted him and was acting like some girl that supposedly met him last year at a football game, and we were flirting with him, and we ask him if he had a girlfriend, and he said Yes, I do, and he went on and on talking about me so that kinda made me feel better, ahh should I be freaking out because of the other girls or just be happy that i've for sure got him?

 

[PosessedEeyore]

hmmmm. i think i would over react, but that is just me... i over react for everything... just tell him that that one girl is getting a tad bit obnoxious. thats wat id do.

 

[AwesomeAsha]

idk, the whole sweetie thing would throw me off.
maybe tell him you feel uncomfortable with that one girl if you are.
but hey at least, he cares for you and really likes you when he says that he does have a girlfriend.

 

[CastawayJ]

remember 6/20

they have no chance if what you posted is 100% true

 

[cindys_castle2011]

remember 6/20

they have no chance if what you posted is 100% true

wait. what!?

 

[CrazySteph]

You're absolutly right! Farther into the relationship He will text her less and less.

When my boyfriend and I first started going out, there was this girl that I absolutly just hated when he talked to her! (i didn't want to say anything, however, he could tell)

but they were in percussion together so they always talked. well as the relationship progressed, He stopped talking to her, and now they don't talk like at all!!!

remember that guys can be guys sometimes and be totally clueless. Heath probably doesn't think anything of the texts.

 

[cdog12]

oh why i repeat why! did you preten to be someoneelse that is rude and messing with him is not nice and it shows you can't trust him

why don't you just tell him instead of impersonationg someoneelse (it could be illegal)

 

[MrsSparrow..]

I can empathise with you.

My ex-boyfriend used to go out with one of my friends and he REALLY liked her but she cheated on him and he liked her for ages. Then fast forward 6 months, they are still like best friends and I start going out with him. I just trusted him because if you think he might cheat, hes obviously not a good enough guy for you to be with. (we broke up for a completely different reason though, so don't feel as if your relationship is doomed )

Just trust him and see how it works out. It's only been 12 days so just chill.

Good luck