My DW and I believe that Fort Wilderness is the Diamond standard for campgrounds and is the standard that other campgrounds aspire to be (but fall short in attainment).
1) the sites are kept immaculate, the utilities function properly, and there is sufficient privacy maintained between neighbors.
2) the comfort stations are well maintained and also kept immaculate
3) Fort Wilderness guests have the exact same rights and accesses as other Walt Disney Resort guests staying in much more expensive hotels on property.
4) activities located within the Fort are far more extensive than other campgrounds. Activities such as Archery, Swimming, Nightly movies, marshmellow/hot dog roasts, Character sing alongs, Hot tubs, Basketball, Horseback riding, Boating, Fishing, and a white sand beach.
5) The vast majority of Fort campers believe strongly in the observance of quiet hours and have a genuine caring for neighbors....more so than I have found anywhere else.
For us, these points have been demonstrated consistently at the Fort over the last 15 years that we have been camping there as a couple (actually since 1971)...not many campgrounds can make that claim. Despite being in the middle of the most visited vacation destinations in the world (visitors are measured in the millions every year), it is the most relaxing location I have ever found.
Again, this is our personal impression...give it a chance and who knows, you may discover (like many of us on the board) that we plan our next Fort vacation before we depart our current one!
Hope this helps