Andrea (andijean), dh and I had dinner once at Belhurst Castle and next time we stayed for a night. I still remember how good the food was. We really enjoy the Finger Lakes, but since we had kids (DD9, DS7) we've only been once, spending 2 nights at a WEIRD B&B in Hammondsport but having a good weekend overall.
I'll PM you for more info as soon as I can, I got the 'server too busy' message.

Thanks for your offer to help!