Call me a prude...

[RitaZ.]

My neighbor's DD (16) has her first boyfriend and let's just say that they were rolling around on the grass "practicing positions" in their front yard. They were all over each other and I do mean all over, she was on top of him, he was on top of her, touching "certain" parts... Let's just say that if they go all the way, they will have "perfected" many positions by then. Mom and dad are both home and I'm really surprised that they haven't said anything to them because they are REALLY conservative and strict parents.

Don't get me wrong, I know what it's like to be that age, but seriously this was totally inappropriate. The funny thing is that her dad is always talking about the girl next door to them and how she makes out with her boyfriend in his car. Now here is his daughter and her boyfriend putting on QUITE a show... I'm NOT exaggerating.

Of course, my 12 yr. DS saw this and began staring out the window, grinning ear to ear. Then all of a sudden, he decided that he wanted to do his homework in the living room.

I'm sure that many here will think that it's no big deal and that I'm a prude, but I was offended by it. I think they should just take it somewhere else...

 

[binny]

no, I dont think youre a prude. I agree with you Public diplays like that are innapropriate at any age IMHO. And IMHO they have no business doing that anyway... but now ILL be the prude That is just how I feel about it. 16 is too Young!!

( note Im not saying hugging and a kiss are innapropiate but this sounds like way more than that)

 

[JetMom]

Sounds like a perfect time to water the lawn!

 

[RitaZ.]

Binny, trust when I say that it was TOTALLY inappropriate. They were putting on quite a "show" for the entire neighborhood.

Jetmom~ Why didn't I think about that?

 

[Beauty]

Sounds like a perfect time to water the lawn!

Nope you aren't being a prude. Whether this girl and her boyfriend are sexual or not, there certainly shouldn't be THAT TYPE of public affection in public. Holding hands and a kiss every now and then is fine, but not gropping!!

You would think she would be embarassed to act like that right where anyone could see her.

 

[RitaZ.]

Here is the thing though... I'm really close to her mom. Do I say something to her or stay out of it?

 

[AZKathy]

You are not a prude. That is unacceptable behaviour in public. Personally, if I was the girl's mother, I would like to know about her actions so I could correct her behaviour in the future......like, keeping her in the house until she is 32 and keeping groping boyfriend far away!

 

[niks81]

I know this isn't funny but I started laughing when I read this! I guess it's humorous to me that these two teeney boppers think that the front yard is the right place to be practicing positions.

I don't think you're being a prude at all actually. It wasn't very long ago that I was that age actually and I remember very well what it is like. However, if I would have been rolling around in the grass with my boyfriend my parents would have whipped my sorry rear end. I'm very surprised that the "conservative and strict" parents allowed it and didn't come out and stop it. Weird!

I don't know what to tell you about telling her mom. Looking at it from the teenager's perspective, you'd be "that mom that told on her". However, I would bet that other neighbors saw it and deemed it inappropriate as well. I guess if you are close with her mom I would just say something randomly about it.

Good luck with that one

 

[Disney Doll]

I'd probably stay out of it. The parents will figure it out soon enough, or else someone else will have told them!

Then they'll wonder why she's pregnant at 17!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Mishetta]

Here are my feelings:

 

[Micca]

You don't have to rat them out. Just "walk" your dog in their yard

 

[RitaZ.]

I told DH when he came home and he said to say nothing. I asked him what he would do if DD did something like that when she is that age, he said, "Our DD isn't going to do THAT!".

This girl was not a passive participant in all of this, she was quite aggressive; more so than the boy. I still can't believe what I saw!

 

[TINKTWINS]

Add me to that prude list! You are not alone there. I would murtilize my son if he even considered something like that!!

 

[Dan Murphy]

Based on your description of their actions, Rita, I think you would be doing them both a favor by somehow passing on what you saw to the mom. If you were the mom, would YOU want to know?

 

[EthelMertz]

Do you have a cold water garden hose on your property? Looks like some kids could use some cooling off!

 

[browneyes]

Originally posted by RitaZ.
Here is the thing though... I'm really close to her mom. Do I say something to her or stay out of it?

Have your ds tell her the show he saw.

 

[Mom2Em]

JetMom that is soooo funny... I thought to myself... "sounds like they need hosed down"...

 

[Stepharoonie!]

YIKES! I'm shocked the parents didn't say anything!!

 

[snoopy]

If I were her Mom, I'd want to know.

 

[marlasmom]

YOU ARE NOT A PRUDE. I don't know whether I'd say anything to the parents - guess it depends on your relationship with them. I might say something to the girl along the lines that the show is not appropriate for your DS.