BCV23 said:
I don't believe I said I cared how others dressed. That would be because I don't save for baseball caps which I would find inappropriate and disrespectful in any nice restaurant.
I took your "thank goodness" to mean that they bothered you.
But as I said, I have never seen anyone wear those at the CG.
Again, I was not asking in the California Grill's dress code, just in general.
And to compare someone recovering from head surgery to someone choosing not to doff outdoor sports wear is beyond me.
What I was (and am still) trying to understand was if you were uniquely bothered by baseball hats or by hats in general. My example was part of trying to understand that, in other words would it matter why the person was wearing the hat? In my example, the person wears a baseball hat to cover a wound that is healing. That was also why I was asking about other kinds of head coverings.
However, it is hardly new for the CG to have a suggested dress code. I don't remember when it started but it was some years back now.
That is interesting, as also I started eating there when they opened, having been to Chef Cliff's first California Grill many times. After he and George left, I began to notice a deterioration in service and food, and started going less and less frequently. I never remember hearing about or being told about any dress code.
I'm not sure why you keep referring to it as a theme park restaurant or theme park resort. Does that put it a lowlier category to you?
I guess it is nice for you that you dine in NY and NOLA often but I'm not sure that is germaine.
No, I do not consider them lowlier. What I meant was that in a place like New York City, or New Orleans, restaurant guests are much more likely to have spent the day dressed more closely in compliance with a dress code then are people that were spending their day in a theme park and yet even in those places, restaurants have lessened or eliminated their dress codes. According to that excerpt, fewer than 25 restaurants in NYC still require jackets for men. Ten years ago, between 4 and 5 times that many would have.
In the Disney context, dress codes are more likely to cause a substantial inconvenience for guests. If one is staying in the same hotel as one is eating, it is no a big deal to stop and change clothes. If one is staying somewhere else on property it might add one to two hours to get back to one's room to change and then back to where one is dining. If one is staying off property, it can be even more of a problem (many off property hotels only have one or two shuttles a day, meaning that one would have to take a taxi both ways, adding one or two hours and quite a bit of expense).
Someone staying in New York or New Orleans is less likely to have spent the day wandering around the city in mouse ears, shorts and a t-shirt, and given that most museums close around 5, stopping back at one's hotel is easier. At Disney, the park is almost always open later than one's reservations and one is quite likely to have spent the day in shorts, a t-shirts, baseball hats, and other non-compliant clothing.
Does this explain my point more clearly?
I did not think you did. I asked you because you seemed to be able to answer without getting emotional about it as many other on here have. Once again, from your response I see that I was correct (very helpful and not emotional). I have not always made my points clearly enough, but I hope I have clarified a few of them for you and can get answers that help me understand your position better.
And you did give her and all of us great advice from your excerpt. Call and ask about the code if you don't know. If in doubt, go the more conservative route.
Peace.
Thanks.
Thanks again for your answers.
/carmi