.....So after the dust settled literally and figuratively on 9/12 the old guy and I were faced with another dilemma, Logistics. I was flat out in NYC and he was still in NJ with 2 school age kids. Since I was a bit banged up, the old guy and my family made the decision to leave me in a NY hospital for the time being. What he quickly realized was that like many households "the mom lady" pretty much too care of the bills. Long story, short we quickly found out that while a 21 year old criminal can stand outside of
Walmart with a scanner and get our entire credit history, my husband of 17 years needed a notorized signature, dispensation from the pope and a letter from his 3rd grade penmenship teacher all to get the $7.37 cents out of my checking account.
While we had gotten around to wills when the kids were born and we had living wills, we didn't have power of attorney forms and our wills were pretty old since they didn't even have "sid" listed.
So every body's home work assignment for the day is to make sure we've got those pesky legal documents all nice and tidy. Check with your state because I think each one is different. For example, we found out that in NJ you must have 2 different forms. A financial poa and a medical POA, who knew.
When every one finishes your home work (especially our young moose members) ya'll can come back outside and play.