So... I'm just going to respond as if all of your posts have been sincere.
I get that there is a disconnect for you somewhere, when it comes to either
understanding the concept of victim-blaming, or
accepting that it exists. Which is reasonable to expect, as its largely an unconscious thing.
It might help you to understand why people are bringing it up in response to statements about Eric Garner contributing to his own death, by reading this
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/in-love-and-war/201311/why-do-we-blame-victims
You are correct. Nobody has openly stated that they believe the chokehold was an acceptable method to use. Yes. Agreed. Just like nobody (typically) openly says that rape (I know, I know... you don't accept that it has any place in the conversation - bear with me!) is acceptable.
The problem is, that by continuing to say things like "yes, but he was resisting arrest", or "yes, but he was doing something illegal" implies that he was somehow asking for it... "it" being his own death. Hence - blaming the victim.
You are more than welcome to reject the concept... but that does not mean that the concept does not exist, or that it does not apply to what you (and others) have been saying.