I understand what she is saying. Sometimes, we, as Christians, tend to lump unbelievers all into one group, just as unbelievers may lump us all into one group along with people who are members of cults, who proclaim to be Christians but aren't, etc. I don't know how many of the other threads you read, but there are a lot of varying opinions out there, some of which are not so nice towards Christians in general. Caitycaity is always very respectful and I enjoy her participation in this thread. I understand this thread is for Christian fellowship, but IMO the questions and respectful comments of anyone are welcome, and may even help us on our Christian walk because sometimes people with varying opinions make us think much more than talking to someone who agrees with everything we say.