Don't count on the resort or restaurant doing anything special. Sometimes it happens and sometimes it doesn't. People have received a wide range of responses for special occassions. You might want to think about ordering a cake, Birthday Basket, or balloons if you want to be guaranteed that she has a specail brithday treat. I just would not count on anything more than a cupcake with a candle in it at the restaurant. Hope you have a great trip. If you do a search there are a lot of threads about what people have and have not received for special occassions.