flipflopmom
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Glad you were able to post this am!Good Friday MorningNothing much has changed since last night.
You get me, you really get me.I get there some days and other days I just want to give up. It really is scary how much we are alike. Hang in there.

Other than to throw at shoe at you for making me cry at school, AGAIN! I've had to tell the kids too many times in the last week or two - Allergies, something in my eye, etc. I didn't comment on this yesterday. Something I learned in the last year, that once it's all said and done, all we have are the memories. I am so thankful that I have lots of happy ones from growing up, and it saddens me soooo deeply to hear about the memories some of my friends here have from childhood. I needed to remember that my kids will remember snippets, it will be selective. What do I want them to remember? Crazy, depressed mommy, always anal about everything, or mommy that loved them, taught them good habits, and was there for them? Yes, teaching my kids good habits (like cleaning their fingernailsI hope we will all look back on these days with smiles in our hearts, and the stress we are feeling will fade away and be barely a memory. Hang in there, girlfriends!!

So nice to have a happy event on the horizon!QOTD: I mention this one a lot but there is a big family wedding in two short weeks. We both have small families and this is the first big event (other than funerals - which we've had plenty of) in many, many years.
First, Howard sounds like a dream. I bet he even replaces the toilet paper!BTW, I know that you know this, but if you are eating pretty much what you've been successful with all along and aren't seeing progress, it may help to change things a bit. My WW leader has often advocated upping the protein and being sure to get the healthy oils in to try to break a plateau.Life will be easier when your husband's shift is compatible with your schedule. Just think of that as your light at the end of the tunnel. Isn't he amazing? Got my 4th week "whoosh" on the scale this morning at my WW weigh in.







So glad you have faith in me!I can see you reaching goal by the end of the challenge. Why, because when you set your mind to something, you set your mind to something. That is one of my favorite things about you.

I get a bit overwhelmed thinking about just how coincidental coming here was, yet the impact was amazing crazy!I can not tell you all how much it means to have you all here as a support. I am so lucky to have found these boards. I think it was god's way of finally answering my prayers for help.
Elite? WOW!!!! That's crazy committment! I would have to be committed! Thanks for the BTDT, sometimes I feel like the only one at her gym that gets overwhelmed, the rest are from the area where the gym is, or they carpool from their areas. I'm the only one with a younger child, only one in this area, and probably the poorest mom!Vent all you need. It's very therapeutic! And your life is very full! I know first hand about the gymnastics stuff - DS21 was in it for 11 years & the last 3 was an elite, so our costs were about 10K/year plus travel & normal monthly fees. It was always something and very stressful financially.

Hope it went well for you!Today is my echo cardiogram and I'm getting a little nervous.
You are the running queen! You will def. meet those goals! Glad the salad worked!I am motivated because of my upcoming conference trip to Tampa at the beginning of November, WDW Half, and Princess! Unfortunately, I am used to not meeting my goals.
I am learning to live by the forgiveness over permission rule. I AM FULLY AWARE IT IS A FULL MOON!!!!!!! Great job on your inches lost!Sometimes it is easier to ask forgiveness than permission. You all do know it is a full moon tonight, right?Might be an explanation for all the craziness in our lives now. I did my measurements this morning and I am down 3 inches!
Sorry it was so crazy!!!! Thanks for the hugs!You realy a big hug. I remember those days all too well. I do at times miss them. Enjoy them while you can. Dh will be back on 1st soon. Try to be extra special to yourself.
I did make it in time for my appointment.
So interesting to read this. My ADHD son is very very picky about what he will eat. Chicken burgers, some chicken nuggets, ham sandwich, only american cheese, no pastas, no rice, no potato (except some FF). I wonder if food adversions go along with ADHD?
http://www.developmentaldelay.net/page.cfm/272
http://addconsults.com/articles/full.php3?id=1462
There are a lot of similarities between ADHD and SID (sensory integration disorder). In fact, we had a pediatrician tell us to go to a huge testing center to see if AK had SID instead of/addition to ADHD. She has a lot of the issues in the 2nd article, clothes have to fit just right, has to have a belt or they feel "too loose" doesn't like to be held tightly, can't get over extraneous noises, etc. She definitely went through a chicken nuggets stage, but they had to be Tyson. Now, she won't hardly touch them. There is a lot to the disorder, more than just being "hyper"...
I will say that my mental state is better this am. Being Friday helps. I am still overwhelmed, but feel a bit more equipped to deal with it. Maybe losing 7.5 inches helped. Unfortunately, 3 were from chest area. Brad calls them the incredible shrinking b**bies. I guess doing the strength and ab stuff even though I haven't been running helped some. Maybe it was the realization that only 2 more weeks of this crazy 2nd shift. Maybe it was being together as a family at the fair. Maybe it's b/c it's Friday. Heck, I'm beginning to think I am bipolar!
Fair was fun. Ran into MIL and FIL, and they paid for one of the girls' wristbands while we were trying to decide what to do about them. AK found a friend, stepped out of her comfort zone a bit, rode some of the rides she had said she wouldn't. Sophie wanted to ride them all, little daredevil! They rode some together. This was the first year that we let AK walk around with a friend. Rite of passage. Made me want to hug them more! DH decided that these fried balls of dough were cheaper than the funnel cake, got more for his money, so he bought those. Well, I took a bite and they were NASTY!!!! Saved me some calories, for sure! Stayed from 5:30-10pm.
Hope today is better at school. Yesterday, most of my kids had gone to the fair the night before for student night. Pretty sure they all ate cotton candy for breakfast!

TGIF everyone!!!
Too funny, just sat back down at computer, and realized I typed all this this am, and never hit submit!
