I hope that you are giving yourself credit for making it through every day. Sounds like there is a lot going on before Monday....does it help you to make a list or does that just make you feel more overwhelmed?
I could not survive without a list! My lists have lists! I seriously LOVE to write it all down, I have a Franklin Covey planner for everything, a school planner, a notebook on the counter, you get the picture. Thanks for your kind words. I do need to give myself more credit than I do just for surviving!
Who is standing in your way?
Imagine someone regularly tying small weights around your ankles as you try to climb a mountain.
I don't have to imagine it, I live it!
Who is standing in my way?
My DH - his work schedule is not his fault, but it has seriously altered my life. Beyond that, he is a very unhealthy eater, and man, and while he is incredibly proud, he is always saying "eat more" "you can't live on that" "don't you want some". He insists on "Meals" where I could get by with making sandwiches for dinner for the girls with veggies and fruit for sides.
My kids - gotta be a mom!
My professor - hello? HOMEWORK
New puppy - mornings are his "up time", so leaving him for a run would be hard even if I could.
Now, all of the above are 100% true. HOWEVER, I love my husband and girls, and puppy, and I chose to go back for my Master's, so the only thing about any of the above that I resent is DH's work schedule. The rest are just facts of life.
I also stand in my way, sometimes. But I will 100% say that this week, I've done the best I can w/ what I've been given. And that feels good!
Life is crazy, and I have finally made the time to sit down, read some posts and post myself! So...I'll start by intriducing myself...
Glad you took the time!
Good morning friends! Sorry I haven't been around the last few days. I was right out straight doing housework and painting over the long weekend. And then I caught DS's cold... and I actually had to WORK the last two days!!
I missed you! Hope you feel better soon!
Cali is definitely a family dog, even 10 years later Right from the beginning we all handled her and interacted with her and she has grown up so attached to all of us. I really hope that you find that Beamer has a relationship with each of you. It is so enriching.
I am starting to see that already! Thanks for sharing your story. The only problem is that since he is so small and docile right now, Sophie is not as gentle as she should be b/c he is easy to handle. We're working on that, but it is taking a lot of patience and teaching with her!
My DH keeps telling me that I need to put myself first, but it's just so hard with a 14 month old.
Good for you on recognizing this early! Sophie was 3 before I even began to think of myself again! In fact, I started my WL journey 1 week after her 3rd bday! However, I am NOT good at putting myself first, at all!
I am so bummed BB is almost over. For me it means that it is the end of summer. Here is a picture of my tattoo as I was getting it and a picture of it when it was done...
CUTE tattoo! I thought about getting one after college, but I don't like needles or pain, so it was a no go! I thought of you while I was watching BB last night!
The job hunt is not going well. I'd hoped to be working full time by now. I had no idea how bad the job market was until I entered it. Stressful and not good for self esteem. Today is my first day subbing for this year. Full day so that's good. I'm waitressing tonight too
Good luck to you!
Man, there are a lot of pages already. I was going to go back in and read them......but with the number I'll just start here and work forward so I don't overwhelm myself.
Good plan! Welcome back!
I just realized I have a whole new motivation for sticking to this plan to lose weight -- We have decided we are definitely going on the Disney 10-night Mediterranean cruise next summer.
YAY!!! I so want to do a cruise someday!
First thing I need to do is get back off the soda. I started drinking them last week in morning and then over the weekend had some overdosing. I always feel it too when I have more than one can I feel crummy.
Giving up soda was one of the best, and hardest things I did in the beginning of my journey. Good luck!
I thought of the commitment to myself and the BL and I held out and didn't have anything!
Love that!

Very motivating and inspiring, thanks for sharing!
Im feeling a little bit better today. Just trying to regain control of my life again. So today Im taking care of everything that went wrong yesterday and moving foward.
I really identify with this! Hang in there, we can do it!
I'm still standing in my way. You'd think I would learn to be more polite to myself and step aside...

He ended the day coming home half an hour later than I expected, minus his sweatshirt. I was so happy to see him I just gave him a big hug (after closing the door so no one would see, of course!

) Turns out, most kids in the school are getting on the subway, so getting in a car was a challenge.
Maria
Glad he had a good first day! I love it, will you please step aside and get out of my way!
The fact is, sometimes circumstances make it very, very hard to be successful at losing weight. Sometimes the people in your life make it harder, usually without intending to, though not always. I can't even say that these things can always be overcome, but I do think that in order to lose weight, I had to (and still have to) figure out to navigate these more challenging relationships.
So true Corinna, so true! BY the way - you still look fabulous. Thanks for sharing your pics again, love the new ones!
Bad start to the day. I woke up feeling TERRIBLE! I sent my DS off to school and went back to bed. I slept until 11:30.
Hope you feel better soon!
Went to my first Jimmy Buffett concert with my mom and my aunt on Saturday Ive been in a little mini funk myself as far as the house goes needs to be cleaned, really cleaned, and organized but I have better things to do (like talk with my policeman friend

!) and too little energy so Ive been slacking and its starting to get on my nerves. Vicious cycle! I think we need another one of those Lets do this! competitions but this time it should be a get on top of our stuff competition

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Bree - I missed you! Glad you checked in, I would love a JB concert! What is it w/ everyone and housework lately? New season, fresh start?
So now I feel like our October trip is really on. My cousins are coming over from Scotland and we're staying at SSR. We had to shorten our trip because dd's first cheer competition is that Sunday - doesn't it figure?

for WDW trips!
I've been meaning to post...I read an interesting fact the other day, the average person burns 30 calories sitting on the couch watching tv in 30 minutes. Same person stretching for 30 minutes burns 95 calories, and 100 doing light household chores. For what it's worth.
OKay, so I have been burning some calories!

Thanks for sharing!
I am down another pound today. I'm working on it. It's just hard to convince my brain that eating a little more is ok, but part of the reason I'm feeling so sluggish today could be because I'm not eating enough.
YOU HAVE TO EAT. Period. Your body needs fuel. Don't make me come after you.
Well, that's not a bad idea. I have a few tasks that I have been putting off WAY too long. I need to clean out the "guest" room which is covered in all of DD's out-grown toys and clothes. I need to clean out DD's closet/dresser/toybox and add those things to the out-grown toys and clothes. I am just dreading all of it. These things will take several days to accomplish and I just don't want to do it!!!
Having just done this w/ DD's clothes, I empathize. Break it up. One day, just organize by size. Get some bins/boxes/ bags. Another day, organize each size by season. It seems more manageable this way. I try to organize my life in minutes sometimes too. What's been working for me are 3 lists. 1 - what has to happen before I go to bed. 2 - what has to happen before I leave for work. These are pretty standard from day to day. The third list is what has to happen during the week. I take 15 -30 minutes a day, if I can, to work on it (clean bathrooms, etc.) I pick something manageable to do in 15 minutes that I can start and complete, knowing if I don't, I'll be spending
I finally did it! I registered for my first 5K!!!!! DD1 is going to do the 1 mile fun run!!!!!

You go girl!
Alright, I am 10 pages behind and for some reason having trouble getting back on the exercise wagon as well as this thread wagon. Don't know what's going on with me
Hang in there!
If I can just have a day where I can get things done but the rest of the world freezes it would be good. I have the constant feeling of falling behind and just not enough time to get it all done. I hope things get easier for you. QOTD- I feel like life sometimes gets in the way. I guess ultimately it falls on me to not let it to. Its just sometimes things get so busy and crazy that emotionally I cant worry about 1 more thing. Luckily these days are getting fewer and farther in between. So I feel like I am starting to conquer my issues. I did good eating most of the day. I peeked at the scale and I only have .2 to loose to hit the 30lbs. !
You are on a roll girl! So proud of you! ITA w/ everything you said!
About to crash, but I tallied my walking and with 6.22 miles today, I crossed the 700 mile mark - 702.27!! Which leaves me 47.73 to reach my goal for the year of 750 miles. Now if only I could get my eating under control and count my points, I would lose weight. Food is the problem....stress is the fuel for the problem.......I MUST SUCCEED!!!!
I think it is very hard to get them both under control at the same time.
Awesome, Jen, getting putting BOB back to work for you and journalling again. Now it's stories like this one that make me want to get a dog. This and when I see michael with my brothers dog, and how cute they are together playing. You have so much on your plate. So hard, I'm sure to try and take it one day at a time, and let some of the little things slide. I hope thing calm down soon for you. I'm glad Beamer is doing well. Sounds like a wonderful addition to your family. I laughed when you said you were jealous of my 2 hours alone, and just so you're not too jealous, it's only 2 morning/week.

Good luck to everyone tomorrow when you get on that scale.
OK. That helps a bit. Only 2 mornings.

I think a dog would be a great Christmas present for Michael!

And the comment about putting BOB to work for you gave me a totally different mental image.

I am just trying to take it 3 hours at a time. That helps, what do I need to do in the next 3 hours.....
oops- things have been so insane with work, I honestly forgot to come and post; so I'm running a bit behind- I did read everything, and promise to stay on track from here on out.
You are making great progress and plans! Congrats on getting in the exercise!
Welcome to our Healthy Habits ChallengeFor part two of the challenge, think of one of SMALL goal you can make for yourself this week to make you "win your race". It does not need to be exercise related (but it could be). It can be anything that will help you have a happy and healthy life. The most important thing is that the goal is small and can be achieved in ONE week.
Ok. I'm going to make this one small, and hope it gets done. I will run 2x between now and next Saturday. SURELY somehow, please God, it will happen!
The main thing I've done this week that is good for me is I gave up COFFEE!!!

I like the fat free flavored creamers and I have realized they add way too many calories. I am drinking herbal tea's and they are wonderful! Amazingly enough I don't miss the coffee that much.
I couldn't give up my coffee, so I went to drinking it black! Congrats!
Hey everyone! I guess you wonder how I don't have time to run but I can type all this. Well, it's dark out, and there is no one at the park where I run until 6:15 or so now. Honestly, I don't feel safe in the dark there by myself. When the sun is up, the park is wonderful, but some shady stuff has been known to go on there overnight, early morning.
Little boy wronged was a terror yesterday. But here is my big dilemma, he was a terror all last year. I told my friend that taught him many times "I am so glad you got him, b/c I would have him in the office every day." Well, my words came back to bite me. I am trying to be understanding about his emotional needs, but knowing his behavior, a lot of it is just him. So finding the balance b/t understanding and firmness is tough!
Talked with AK about gym, and told her if she plans to continue she has to step up and help w/ housework a lot more. She seemed to understand. We'll give it a few weeks to see.
Having a bit of mixed feelings about the weekend. Girls will stay w/ MIL tonight, they'll take them to mom tomorrow, and they'll stay w/ her tomorrow night. I'm going to miss them, and feel like a bad mom. But tonight is "get the homework done or die" night, leaving around 6 or 7 to head to Virginia Tech, and we'll be there until 7 or so tomorrow night, if not later. I must say, I am looking forward to the time away, and the tailgating.
Sophie had a great first day in preschool. Came home and told me it was September the 9th, the first few lines of the Pledge, who she played with. No problems when mom dropped her off, and when mom went to pick her up, she said "Granny, I don't want to leave yet. You can go home and come back later."
OFf for my 45 min drive to take DD to MIL for the day. Hope weigh ins go well for all of you! Forgot to do it before I had my coffee, so I'll weigh in tomorrow. Jen - I'll try to get my HH points to you later today!
HAVE A GREAT FRIDAY!! TGIF!!!

TARYN