I guess no one had time to work on the QOTD today. I know that it was an odd question, but there was, is a method to my madness. I was hoping that when people started browsing gowns it might motivate them to fit into the perfect dress. I totally understand not having time do work on it though.
Deb, I thought it was a GREAT question but, yeah, no time to actually go look. That's the kind of question you'd have to announce a few weeks in advance to allow time for research!
QOTD for Tuesday: Who is your favorite Disney Character and Why.
I think I've seen this question before and I don't think I had an answer then either. I guess it just all depends on my mood or whatever. As generic as it may seem, I guess I'll go with Mickey because he represents everything that we all love about the characters and the parks and all things "Disney" that can make a 37-year-old wife, mom and Database Administrator feel like a little kid again.
Thats a good plan. You can do this!
Thanks! I hope I don't bother yall too much by planning and journalling right here in the thread. I'm at a place where I need... supervision??

Maybe if I do this for a few days I can start trusting myself a little more so that y'all are subjected to the minutiae of my days.
I wore a summer dress in a deep cranberry chiffon. It was sleeveless and too long. I shortened it and used the extra material to make short cap sleeves on it.
Crafty, crafty! It sounds really beautiful.
I get plenty of me time at 4:30 am!
Well, if "sleep" is considered "me time" then 4:30 works for me too!
Sent a bunch of emails out last night telling people I was selling.
Where do you stand on shipping items to out-of-town customers?? I think I've been to one party and I bought one thing, but I wouldn't mind looking online and seeing if there's anything I can't live without. I can't guarantee that I'd buy anything, but I wouldn't mind being on your email list. If out-of-town customers would be too much trouble, that's fine. Otherwise, let me know and I'll PM my email address to you.
Is it really only Tuesday?
Seriously!
Slept pretty heavily until about 5:30 this morning.
Yeah, I slept pretty heavily until 6:45

which was about an hour too late. I was like 30 minutes late to work this morning. Not a terribly good way to start a day.
With all this discussion of being a SAHM and structure, I realized that the structure is important to me.
I'm actually a lot more easy-going about structure than I used to be. I remember taking week-long vacations years ago and by about Thursday of that week, I started to go a little nuts. Now... not so much. Being off work for a longer period of time doesn't make me crazy anymore but my exercise/eating schedule definitely suffers.
Connie: So relieved that you understood me.

You are right. Daydreaming during work
I like your mentality about how you did with yesterday's plan and think it's great that you have a plan for today!
Like I said to Cupcaker, I think I need a little "supervision" these days so I may keep planning and journalling here in the thread so I have to "answer to" y'all for a few days.
My favorite character is Jessie.
I think DD is gonna be Jessie for Halloween. All the store-bought costumes are total junk, though, so I'm working with my mom to see if we can make something. If it actually comes together, I'll post a pic.
Good Morning. I got up and took the kids to school, came home and got the closet primed.
Busy, busy!! I'm with Cam. (Was it Cam?) You need to post pics of the finished project. I'd love to see it!
Connie - You did awesome yesterday!!

How does it feel to have a great day under your belt (pun intended)?

I know you can't control how everything goes every day, but it must feel so good to have gotten on track and had a completely successful day. Now, just repeat, right?
Just one good day definitely helps clear the mind. And, yes, now, just *repeat*. Easy, right?
I think I am going to take a lesson from Connie and journal my plan for the day ahead of time rather than taking it as it comes. I seem to be so out of control again eating fat free chips and pretzel crisps every night. I hate that I'd broken that habit and am now back in it. UGH!

Yes, as I said yesterday, a lot of this process involves re-learning the lessons we thought we had down pat or learning new ones. Since I don't want to NOT have those snacks in the house, what I am going to have to do is put the food scale on the kitchen island before I even take the packages out of the closet. That will force me into portion control, at the very least.
Okay, the "out of control eating chips and pretzels" reminded me... last night with my Amy's meal at dinner, I also ate about a 3rd of a BIG bag of baby carrots. I figure if I'm gonna zone out in munching, it better be veggies. Not ideal, but there are worse things. (I really did need about two servings, but I probably had 4 or 5.)
2 pounds were gone from my unexpected 3 lb gain yesterday so I just need to get that one extra pound off and then one more pound to reach 20 pounds lost in total. It may not happen this week but hopefully by next week. I am a VERY slow loser and I just have to be patient and keep up the healthy habits.
You're doing great! Keep on keeping on! And your trip sounds awesome! We have never been to Europe and we really need to do that some day.
Going to do the elliptical at 12:30 during Y&R. I should finish the laundry that I started last night.
Okay, when I'm at work, one of my favorite things to listen to (besides MouseWorldRadio, of course) is my John Williams "station" on Slacker Radio. If you don't know, John Williams is the composer for the music in all the movies where the music is the best part of the movie. Like Star Wars, for instance. Anyway, if you use John Williams as the "seed" for your station, you get lots of orchestral movie soundtrack music and other classical pieces. I like it because it's (mostly) instrumentals, so there are no lyrics to distract me when I'm trying to think and it's big and moving and great for drowning out the noise of working in a cubicle environment.
ANYWAY... at the exact moment I read your post, the theme to Y&R came on. The coincidence of it cracked me up.
Don't we all?

I think it was
corinnak who taught me that you can always eat way more calories than you can run off.
And, lately, I've been eating more calories than we can ALL run off!

Moving on...
I was never a SAHM but I have to admit that there were some days I was really happy to be able to drop DS off at daycare and go to work!
Ummm... Yup.
Abso-friggin-lutely!
I'm jumping on the one day at a time bandwagon. I just feel very discouraged and that I am not strong enough to reach my goals of running the Princess. This is in spite of losing 4 inches with WIN! and being totally on track with my weight loss. So I am going to take it easy exercise wise for the next few days and see if I can get to feeling a little stronger and better about things.
There ya go. Do what you can. And, when you can do more - do more.
Being a SAHM is definitely not a life of leisure. A couple of weeks ago I mentioned to my cousin's wife how busy I was and that I didn't have time to drive up to the mountains to see visiting relatives. I said it would be better if they came to see me. She said, "oh, did you get a job?" I said no and was once again saddened by the perception that I don't do anything all day. I should have said, "yes, I have a job. I'm a SAHM."
Before I was a mom and we were just DINKs (Double Income No Kids), SAHM seemed like it would be easy. But I know now that being a mom is a lot of work, whether you're "working" or not. And being a GOOD mom is even harder.
Just started watching The Time Travelers Wife. Very confused by it already. I tried reading the book and just kept getting lost. Not sure if I'll make it through the movie or not.
I really liked that movie and I've got to say that Rachel McAdams is about the most beautiful woman I have ever seen in my life.
Also got the barefoot shoes and I'm loving them when I run. They look crazy, but keep my feet from hurting halfway through my run.
My feet hurt just thinking about running barefoot. With the barefoot shoes, doesn't it hurt when you step on a pebble or something?