If you do not like the look of the hairstyles, then perhaps an appointment wouldn't be the best option for you and your child. Unfortunately, there can be no deviation from the 3 hairstyles shown in the brochure. Of course, you can request that less product be used in your child's hair, but it will still end up looking "slicked back" as you put it. If you request no product be used, then that presents a challenge for your FGIT. It also means you can expect the hairstyle to last about 5 minutes once you get outside. If you decide to come and then skip the hairstyle, you will still be charged the full price of the package. Same thing goes if you skip the makeup. Skip both, and there wouldn't really be much of a chance for us to interact with your child, as the appointment would then consist of maybe a 5 minute nail painting session

Sorry to be so brutally honest, but we actually deal with this kind of situation a lot and it's better you know what to expect beforehand, as opposed to finding out after you get there and running the risk of upsetting your DD incase you decide to skip the appointment all together.