You do get a sash with the crown package. We just went and I posted a review on another thread. I will post it here as well.
Well, we are back from our trip to the Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique. It was a lot of fun! I went with my DD(5) and DN(4). My daughter got the Coach package - hair and makeup. She wore her own dress. My niece got the Castle - the works. Both girls were treated the same - like royalty. We had the first ressies of the day, 9:30, but there were a LOT of people already there. They have a bunch of stations to do the makeovers. I didn't count, but I guess about 10.
My daughter got the "Fairy Tale" hairstyle. It was traditional. Her hair was up in a bun with a small tiara in front and a Mickey Mouse "bling" clip in back. They sprinkled pixie dust in her hair and had her wear a Miss America type of banner thing that said Bibbidi Bobbidi Boutique on it. There was a photopass guy there who took her picture throughout most of the process. She was also able to take home the left over makeup that was used on her. We were then sent to the scrapbooking store at the Marketplace (World of Memories?). She did a photo shoot there and we were able to put all of the shots on the photopass card. She also was asked to sign her name in a Princess Registry book so she could come back one day and look at it.
My niece got the Pop Princess hairstyle. She has short hair, so it was nice for her to be able to have long hair with the extensions. She was able to pick an outfit from the Princess closet. Then they took her to the dressing room to get changed. They did her hair and makeup next. She had all the treatments mentioned above and was also sent for a photo shoot. Her package came with some photos, so her mom left with some on the spot.
After the makeovers we headed to MK for lunch with the princesses at the Royal Table. The girls got a lot of attention throughout the park that day. Especially when we park hopped to EPCOT where girls in princess dresses are less the norm than at the MK.
My overall recommendation is that if you have little girls, you should go. Wear your own princess dress and save some $, because you are treated no differently. Get the first ressie of the day, so the little princess can wear her hair for the entire day. It was money well spent.
Hope this helps . . .