We've been invited to a bar mitzvah for the son of my husband's college roommate. We've been friends with them for 15 years. We used to be very close (talk every day) but now we talk 2-3 times a year. We live about 30 minutes from eachother but we see eachother maybe 1X a year. We invite them to bbqs and parties (which they don't attend) but rarely get invited to their house. We have never been to a bar mitzvah before. I don't know what to give as a gift. The entire family has been invited. I'm assuming cash is the usual gift, right?
Any help would be appreciated.
Any help would be appreciated.