Well, I have kids, but they are 20, 18 and 18. The twins will graduate from high school this spring. Hubby and I are downsizing, if you can call that. We currently have a five bedroom house in South Jersey and are looking into a four bedroom. We decided on the Charlotte area because we have been there several times and really like the area. DH is a consultant and just needs to be near an airport. When looking at houses in that area we were first concentrating on the north Charlotte area, (Mooresville, Huntersville), but were told by many that the commute to the airport from there was horrendous and that we should look into South Charlotte or Rock Hill area of South Carolina. Taxes are cheaper in South Carolina and homes are gorgeous. Will be doing a new build and now we're just waiting for info on a new development going up that we're interested in.
It is overwhelming, we both grew up in NJ and have family here. My husband also has family in NC and GA. Good luck!