Baby Gender Reveal at MK!???

[Luv2Run]

That isn't what I said. Someone said something about not making a gender reveal a big thing because it can be hurtful for those that have lost a child or cannot have a child. And I said, that the same could be said for having a child's birthday party.

I never meant anything about WDW.

That is literally all I've been talking about. That is what the OP was talking about (having this at WDW). Yet you continue to stamp your feet about the whole idea of having gender reveals. Yes, we get it, they are a thing that people do. I, personally, think it's ridiculous to make a show of them at WDW. It's as simple as that. Not to mention the fact that whatever props (be it a box of balloons or what have you) will also have to be toted back out of the park after the super-special photoshoot is over, since I highly doubt Mommy and Daddy-to-be will want to cart that around in the park the rest of the day. It just seems like a whole lot to do for one picture.

And I was the one that mentioned that I wouldn't do this because it would be like rubbing it in the faces of others who are childless at WDW. And others agreed with me, so I know I'm not alone in my thinking. Maybe I'm just the type of person who thinks of what effect my actions have on others.

 

[DopeyDame]

Wow.... okay, so here's what we have determined. Please tell me if I am wrong:

Gender reveals are stupid in the opinion of many, but some people like to do them. Knowing this, it would be best to do it in a way that will not hinder someone else's vacation anymore than you would hinder them by vacationing in a normal way. So, if you choose to do a gender reveal in the park, please make sure to do it in a way that will not have a negative effect on someone else's vaction. Instead of doing it right in the middle of Main Street USA, perhaps do a special dessert from The Plaza. Instead of releasing balloons in front of Cinderella Castle, perhaps open a box with either Mickey or Minnie inside of it as you would if you were simply taking a photo in front of the castle.

Will that cover everything?

Perfect! A pretty impressive summary of 10 pages of entertaining banter.

 

[lillygator]

did op ever come back?

 

[NewRVLady]

did op ever come back?

Nope-do you blame her?

OP-I can tell you from someone who used to think Gender reveal parties were silly...............I COMPLETELY changed my mind when it happed to be my grandchild-it was the greatest thing we did as a combined family!

 

[pigletgirl]

Nope-do you blame her? OP-I can tell you from someone who used to think Gender reveal parties were silly...............I COMPLETELY changed my mind when it happed to be my grandchild-it was the greatest thing we did as a combined family!

That is family. Very different scenario. Apples to oranges.

 

[msjprincess]

Nope-do you blame her?

OP-I can tell you from someone who used to think Gender reveal parties were silly...............I COMPLETELY changed my mind when it happed to be my grandchild-it was the greatest thing we did as a combined family!

That's exactly the point most of us have been making.

 

[phorsenuf]

Nope-do you blame her?

OP-I can tell you from someone who used to think Gender reveal parties were silly...............I COMPLETELY changed my mind when it happed to be my grandchild-it was the greatest thing we did as a combined family!

I was just fine with a phone call. Though they did take forever to tell me.

 

[luvsJack]

I'm curious, does perceived DISboards injustices activate your spidey senses?

You are too funny.

That is literally all I've been talking about. That is what the OP was talking about (having this at WDW). Yet you continue to stamp your feet about the whole idea of having gender reveals. Yes, we get it, they are a thing that people do. I, personally, think it's ridiculous to make a show of them at WDW. It's as simple as that. Not to mention the fact that whatever props (be it a box of balloons or what have you) will also have to be toted back out of the park after the super-special photoshoot is over, since I highly doubt Mommy and Daddy-to-be will want to cart that around in the park the rest of the day. It just seems like a whole lot to do for one picture.

And I was the one that mentioned that I wouldn't do this because it would be like rubbing it in the faces of others who are childless at WDW. And others agreed with me, so I know I'm not alone in my thinking. Maybe I'm just the type of person who thinks of what effect my actions have on others.

I wasn't stamping my feet about anything.

Let me back up. I don't think WDW should do anything to make a gender reveal happen necessarily.

But, if you are going to say that one should not have a gender reveal in a public place because of those who may see it that cannot have children or have lost a child will be hurt, then by the same logic we should not have public birthday parties or anything celebrating our children. That would not be fair to our children.

Everyone should think of what effect their actions have on others, but by the same token, you cannot hide your life away because you may have something that someone else can't or doesn't have. And some should stretch that to realize that their words effect others too.

Some posters have said, "well maybe if these people realize that EVERYBODY thinks its annoying and ridiculous they will quit doing it". And I just think that is a bit over the top and being "all about me".

If the OP was asking how to make it happen that Mickey and Minnie escorted her down Mainstreet with a banner reading "It's a Boy", I would agree that it is over the top and a bit much. But, if it were possible to open a box with 5 or 6 blue or pink balloons in it and take a picture in front of the castle, its really not that big of a deal and it certainly is not going to cause a problem in the vacation of others. Now, I do agree that toting a box around all day or whatever would be cumbersome and I wouldn't want to do that. Maybe she was just going to go in the park for the reveal and picture and right back out, who knows.

 

[Wendy31]

I haven't read the whole thread; however, my first thought was (& this may have already been mentioned)...

If Disney realizes there's a market for this, they're going to create "Baby Gender Reveal" Packages & start charging for the experience w/ tiered packages.

* basic in the garden of your resort packages
* Illuminations or Wishes cruise packages
* Pick a country of the World Showcase to give your special moment an exotic flair
* In front of the castle packages
* Or, my favorite - in a baby care station!

And you can have a character join you for the special moment for just a little bit more $$!

 

[goofyintoronto]

Thankfully, I believe that Disney would not allow the balloon release, as it is terrible for wildlife. And, I think that that kind of very pubic display screams "attention seeking."

Anyway, there is no reason the reveal can't involve something more private, even if it's at WDW. Have your friend wrap up pink or blue Mickey ears, or like a PP suggested, a princess or pirate outfit. Then, plan a special dinner, or book the dessert party, and open your box.

I agree, its terrible for wildlife and the environment. (and ya, very attention seeking. Something like this would be better kept private). Plus someone mentioned that its illegal in florida to do a balloon release. Anyway, I agree that the OP should keep it private. I like the mickey ears idea. very cute.

Nope-do you blame her?

OP-I can tell you from someone who used to think Gender reveal parties were silly...............I COMPLETELY changed my mind when it happed to be my grandchild-it was the greatest thing we did as a combined family!

See that was your grandchild. its different to do something for the family. but to a bunch of strangers? why? Meh. Whatever floats her boat, totally up to them obviously. But the balloon release idea just wont fly. Time for Plan B!

 

[EMom]

I need help! Next week my hubby and I get to find out what we're having and we want to make it special. My plan is to have the doctor write our babies name on the scan pic, put it in an envelope which I would give to my friend and she'd put the rest together. Balloons (appr. color) in a box, photo session etc... but my question is: How do we get this to be approved by Disney!? Should we talk to security? Guest relations? who can ok a big box of balloons to be released at the Magic Kingdom??????

Here's what I don't get. Isn't simply having a baby special all by itself? Isn't finding out the normal way, with the doctor saying that it's a boy/girl SPECIAL ENOUGH?

What exactly is it that you want to be "special"? The information (It's a ____.) or the grand production? It seems as if the emphasis is on the way it is presented, rather than the actual information itself. I would think hearing the news at the doctor's office would be a big deal for the parents.

I had to read this post a few times because I kept thinking the couple was trying to do a gender reveal for their families, but NOPE, it's to reveal their medical information to themselves. So is the news of boy/girl just not special if you don't receive it at WDW? Is it not special unless others are around when you find out? Because I thought the news itself was what was special......

 

[aaarcher86]

Here's what I don't get. Isn't simply having a baby special all by itself? Isn't finding out the normal way, with the doctor saying that it's a boy/girl SPECIAL ENOUGH? What exactly is it that you want to be "special"? The information (It's a ____.) or the grand production? It seems as if the emphasis is on the way it is presented, rather than the actual information itself. I would think hearing the news at the doctor's office would be a big deal for the parents. I had to read this post a few times because I kept thinking the couple was trying to do a gender reveal for their families, but NOPE, it's to reveal their medical information to themselves. So is the news of boy/girl just not special if you don't receive it at WDW? Is it not special unless others are around when you find out? Because I thought the news itself was what was special......

I've been wondering the same thing.

Isn't the surprise factor still there when the doctor says 'it's a whatever!' ? Someone doing a private photo shoot and posting it on FB for friends and extended family..... Fine. Cute. Whatever. But what is the point of letting 10,000 strangers know that your child is 1/2 genders that people have been birthing for thousands of years?

Unless it's being revealed that you're birthing a hippopotamus, most strangers probably don't care. It just feels so 'look at me!' And less about the actual gender of the baby.

 

[leebee]

Here's what I don't get. Isn't simply having a baby special all by itself? Isn't finding out the normal way, with the doctor saying that it's a boy/girl SPECIAL ENOUGH?

What exactly is it that you want to be "special"? The information (It's a ____.) or the grand production? It seems as if the emphasis is on the way it is presented, rather than the actual information itself. I would think hearing the news at the doctor's office would be a big deal for the parents.

I had to read this post a few times because I kept thinking the couple was trying to do a gender reveal for their families, but NOPE, it's to reveal their medical information to themselves. So is the news of boy/girl just not special if you don't receive it at WDW? Is it not special unless others are around when you find out? Because I thought the news itself was what was special......

This whole "reveal" thing is like planning a surprise party for yourself!!

If a "BIG REVEAL" is so important, why don't you wait until the baby is born? The OB will yell "IT"S A _____!!!" You'll be thrilled, DH will be thrilled, the nurses and delivery staff will be thrilled, your parents and in-laws in the waiting room will be thrilled… you know, share it with people who CARE, not with folks who you'll annoy.

 

[EMom]

I've been wondering the same thing.

Isn't the surprise factor still there when the doctor says 'it's a whatever!' ? Someone doing a private photo shoot and posting it on FB for friends and extended family..... Fine. Cute. Whatever. But what is the point of letting 10,000 strangers know that your child is 1/2 genders that people have been birthing for thousands of years?

Unless it's being revealed that you're birthing a hippopotamus, most strangers probably don't care. It just feels so 'look at me!' And less about the actual gender of the baby.

Now I'd stop dead in the middle of Main Street for an announcement like that. I'd slow to a crawl to find out she was birthing a litter of kittens.

Yeah, WDW could get rich off this. When Tinkerbell flies from the castle at the end of Wishes, couples forking over several thousand dollars could hold their breath, waiting to see if the fireworks streaming from Tink's nether regions were pink or blue. It's a BOY! It's a GIRL! Think of the potential revenue!

 

[DopeyDame]

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But, if you are going to say that one should not have a gender reveal in a public place because of those who may see it that cannot have children or have lost a child will be hurt, then by the same logic we should not have public birthday parties or anything celebrating our children. That would not be fair to our children. .

You keep going back to this point, even though it's only a very small portion of what people have objected to. (Most just think it's over-the-top and too "look at me" to have balloons pop up in the middle of Main Street, but anyway...)

I was one of the people who mentioned that someone might be hurt by seeing it. And, as you might guess, there were several years in my life when I was that person who couldn't have children. As a rule, I'm not an overly emotional person and for the most part I carried on with life without much drama or hurt. I attended baby showers, gave birthday presents, played with friends' kids, etc.

In places or times when I EXPECTED there to be a child or pregnancy related event, it really wasn't a big deal at all. In the magic kingdom, I clearly would expect lots of kids. And lots of pregnant people. And lots of birthday buttons. People living their lives and enjoying it. And that's awesome. And any issues that would arise from that would be MY issues for me to deal with however I could.

But surely you can acknowledge that wearing a birthday button or singing happy birthday in a restaurant are events that someone would expect. While walking down Main Street and bumping into a gender reveal, complete with projectile balloons and an elaborate photo shoot, would be unexpected. There would be no way at all for me to avoid it or prepare for it. Instead, when minding my own business, I would suddenly be involved in some stranger's "gender reveal" without any warning and, given the location and the crowd, probably without any way to avoid it.

If I saw something like that on my upcoming trip this fall, I'd roll my eyes. If I saw something like that several years ago on the trip the month after yet-another-failed cycle, it probably would have sent me to the bathroom with tears for a few minutes. Then I would have pulled myself together and gotten on with the day and had a wonderful time in the happiest place on Earth.

You can think that's being overly selfish of me to point out the effect her reveal may have on others. I can live with that. But to pretend it's not different than a kid's birthday party is being purposely obtuse.

 

[cabanafrau]

Now I'd stop dead in the middle of Main Street for an announcement like that. I'd slow to a crawl to find out she was birthing a litter of kittens.

Yeah, WDW could get rich off this. When Tinkerbell flies from the castle at the end of Wishes, couples forking over several thousand dollars could hold their breath, waiting to see if the fireworks streaming from Tink's nether regions were pink or blue. It's a BOY! It's a GIRL! Think of the potential revenue!

Hold it right there. Creatively using the fireworks for the reveal was mine, on page one. I shall be taking imagineeer credit on that one!

I will magnanimously bestow upon you oversight on all workman's comp claims resulting from same however.

 

[Hannathy]

Tinkerbelles wand could glow in the appropriate color and could be presented to the couple as a keepsake! Thus removing the workers comp claims form the fireworks AND allowing Disney to sell such wand at 500x the actual cost of it, since it flew with Tinkerbelle!!

 

[EMom]

Hold it right there. Creatively using the fireworks for the reveal was mine, on page one. I shall be taking imagineeer credit on that one!

I will magnanimously bestow upon you oversight on all workman's comp claims resulting from same however.

I have no knowledge of that. None. Did you make a general mention of fireworks? Or did you specifically mention gender colored fireworks emanating from Tink's nether regions? (I picture them spewing in a conical fashion.) Because I took it new a new level.


Now if you want to get together and discuss ways to knock this thing out of the park, so to speak, I am open to negotiations.

BTW, it is understood that Tink will have to sign away any rights to Worker's Comp, etc. She will be given hazard pay from the thousands of dollars the happy couple forks over. Maybe $50-75.....Sounds reasonable. A butt shield made from the stuff on the space shuttle could be part of the deal if we can get it in the right shade of green.

 

[JennaDeeDooDah]

Yeah, WDW could get rich off this. When Tinkerbell flies from the castle at the end of Wishes, couples forking over several thousand dollars could hold their breath, waiting to see if the fireworks streaming from Tink's nether regions were pink or blue. It's a BOY! It's a GIRL! Think of the potential revenue!

See, that's not what I'd want. I want to ride on the train while Casey Jr. plays on the speakers. Then, an audioanimatronic stork will fly overhead and drop a bundle into my car. I will unwrap it and it will either be a pink or blue baby elephant.





In all seriousness, OP, I see nothing wrong with doing a gender reveal at the park as long as it is discrete... and it would have to be or disney won't let it happen, anyway. Consider a special pink or blue dessert at a meal. Maybe a Minnie or Mickey in a box. Perhaps your room can be decorated when you return from the park. Have fun with it, no matter what you decide.

 

[Wendy31]

What?

No one likes my "Gender Baby Reveal" Package in the one of the Baby Care Stations?

It's thematic.