Baby Blues... yet again.. venting..

[pfishgirl]

well it seems like everyone around me is pregnant but me... Again..
DH and I have been trying for 5+ years to have a Baby and No such luck.. every test is negative.. the DR is stumped at why I can't conceive.. DH just simply gave up.. but I just can't yet.. everytime I am a day or 2 "late" i think could this be it?? only to come crashing down off my high hopes cloud onto my butt..

so now im trying to be happy for my friends and family who are pregnant but it is getting Very hard.. especially when the name of "My" daughter is now going to be taken away from me too.. but what am i suppose to say... you can't use THAT name, that was suppose to be My daughter's name.. it's been 5+ years.. i just need to Give Up!!! but i can't

thanks all who viewed my post
**sigh**

 

[DisneyMommyMichelle]

Stacy, HUGS to you!!!

 

[N&B'smom]

I'm so sorry. In a way I know how you feel. It's SO hard. You say you've had every test...how about your progesterone level? I wasn't getting pregnant, they realized mine was low so I went on meds and got pregnant 2 months after that. Just a thought!

Shelby

 

[redshoes]

I'm so sorry. I've been through six years on infertility treatment and we still have no answers to why conceive. I wish that I could say somthing to make it all better, but I know nothing that I say will. Please just know that I understand and I'm sorry that you have to deal with this.

 

[Jen_in_NH]

I'm so sorry

It's hard to deal with infertility when everyone else around is getting pregnant (especially if it's an "oops") Come over to the trying to conceive thread - there's a bunch of us there with similar stories.

Jen

 

[Divamomto3]

((((Stacy)))))
I am so sorry you are going through this. Stay positive. My sister became pregnant with her first daughter no problem. Well that daughter is going to be 9 tomorrow and she just gave birth to her son in February. It took that long with no explanation. She had also given up and now I have a beautiful nephew!

And as for your name you picked out...you be sure to still use it!!! It doesn't matter how many "Janes" or whatever the name is, there are in your friend circle...there will only be one in YOUR house!

Good luck and good baby vibes to you. If you are only going to your regular OB/Gyn, I'd suggest finding a fertility specialist at a major medical center near you. Sometimes one or two doses of a certain med is all that's needed.

 

[Madaboutthemouse]

Stacy!

 

[DisneyAddict_M]

I wish you the best of luck.

 

[Pooh_Friend#1]

 

[Lisa loves Pooh]

I'm so sorry.

I just PM'd you with some links of where you may find some comfort--and maybe some help.

 

[pfishgirl]

thank you all sooooo very much...

The name we picked was Emily Elizabeth (ezlizabeth was my grandmas name)

We went to several specialists and when they see the meds and tests the others have done.. they say.. "well not much more i can suggest.. so have you thought about adoption as another path to take"??? DH doesn't want to try an adopt anymore.. he just gave up.. Now we takes our friend's children with us everywhere and I'm kinda getting tired of it.. as you can tell by the siggy line... 18 people to WDW.. well add 2 more.. and infant and a 1 year old... so Grand Total = 20 now...

thanks again.. im just feeling really down and pms isnt helping..

 

[LBAK]

I so know how you feel and I am so sorry that you feel that way! Hang in there. I gave up trying after 7 years and decided to just go on with my life. 2 years later I was pregnant and have a beautiful 10 yo DD. Just in hang there! Your day will come.

 

[paigevz]

So sorry. I had indeterminate secondary infertility. Clomid worked for us, after 5 years of avoiding baby showers and baby stores, but making wish lists on line just in case. Who knows why it suddenly worked?

One day, one way or another, you're going to get there too. Until then, I'm sorry........it is really hard.

 

[ILUVMYBRIT]

 

[AllyandJack]

I'm so sorry. I'm moving onto IVF #4 (I had an ectopic miscarriage and what they presume was a blighted ovum), so I know how you feel. I have two friends due next month. I'm happy for them, but angry for me.

We have some male factor problems - more or less getting the sperm to meet the egg. All of my tests have been negative, so we have no idea why I keep kicking out the embryos. It's so frustrating to not have answers. I actually HOPE they find something at every test - a polyp, a fibroid - anything to explain what the heck is wrong with me. So, I can relate to the frustration of not having answers.

If you ever want to talk or vent, you can PM me anytime.

I can't give up either. I want to give up, but the idea of giving up scares me more than IVF #4.

 

[Minnesota!]

I am so sorry. I have been there. It is the most excruciating emotional pain. And you feel alone. Like you are the only infertile one in the world. You're not.

Come to the conceive thread - we'll cheer you up :O) It's a good luck thread...too!!

The name you have picked out is GORGEOUS!!

 

[minnieandmickeymouse]

 

[pfishgirl]

tyvm all of you for your kind words.. hugs.. and thoughts..
i really do appreciate it...
thank you again.. each of you..

 

[grlpwrd]

Hugs to you, Stacy, and all TTC mommies to be!