U2_rocks!
<font color=coral>The DISer formerly known as U2_r
- Joined
- Sep 7, 2006
Boys have always been welcome at my DDs' parties and girls at my DS', but our parties are not a bunch of kids shoved in a basement for a few hours. We have beach parties, movie parties etc. None of my kids has expressed any interest in having a mixed house party yet - they are all bored by the idea because they like to do stuff. In the past few years only the girls have wanted house parties, and they only invited other girls because they wanted sleepovers or girly parties. DS hasn't wanted a house party in years.
I guess as soon as they feel ready for a "teen style" house party where all they do is hang out or dance to music, they can have one. We have no basement, so adults will be close by. I will also invite my friends, and yes we will drink alcohol. This would be nothing new - we are often at one friend or another or at the club we belong to, and the teens and pre-teens have no problem hanging out near us. Mixed parties (meaning kids/teens and adults) are very common with our group.
I guess as soon as they feel ready for a "teen style" house party where all they do is hang out or dance to music, they can have one. We have no basement, so adults will be close by. I will also invite my friends, and yes we will drink alcohol. This would be nothing new - we are often at one friend or another or at the club we belong to, and the teens and pre-teens have no problem hanging out near us. Mixed parties (meaning kids/teens and adults) are very common with our group.