Are men always wrong?

[mtblujeans]

don't feel so bad.
just remember, women are evil.......


that's what i tell my sons when i think they are being twisted by the bimbo they are dating.

but i am the exception to the evil woman part............

We all knew that already!

She'd kill me. And to an extent, I feel guilty. However, I honestly feel, having a place like this to vent is very healthy. It also makes me feel better to know that I am not completely insane.

No, you're not completely insane....just a young newlywed!

 

[mtblujeans]

really trying for that tag mtblujeans..................

seriously, i can empathize with the op.

Hey, 'ya take a TAG where you can get 'em!! I empathize too....just hangin' around and picking at him waiting to see if his sense of humor can take much more!!

 

[Alicnwondrln]

you will be wrong alot even when your right
but in this case your wife is being very unreasonable
if its worrying her then she should have left work adn went there on her own

 

[Alicnwondrln]

I have not doctored this in any way. This is the email I just got from my wife:

Well I hope it doesn’t cost me an arm and a leg to get my car fixed again because then I really will have to return your christmas presents…. And don’t open those movies I left on the couch because I’ll probably have to return those as well to get my ******* car fixed again. At least a couple guys here were nice enough to see if they could fix it for me.

It's official. My life stinks.

yeah im not perfect and i hate to judge but WOW
i would NEVER speak to DH like that
you need some help like now ir your doomed to a life of this
and thats sad

 

[Duckfan-in-Chicago]

I would give you the answers you seek, but my wife sometimes reads these boards.

 

[mtblujeans]

I would give you the answers you seek, but my wife sometimes reads these boards.

AHHHHHHHHHH! That's no fun! That's like Yoda saying "I have the answer but there may be other little people around and I wouldn't want to make them jealous!"

 

[Duckfan-in-Chicago]

AHHHHHHHHHH! That's no fun! That's like Yoda saying "I have the answer but there may be other little people around and I wouldn't want to make them jealous!"

Are you on some kinda pop rock buzz or something? I don't even understand that analogy. I asked my son about it, and he just said "Doggie?" There was a dog on television...I don't think he was really listening to me.

I'm not afraid of any green hand puppets getting jealous, or whatever that means. I'm afraid of my wife.

 

[mtblujeans]

Hmmmm....Pop rock buzz or no....I've never been afraid of my DH! I guess there's something to what Macraven posted!!

 

[MinnyGranny62]

ALWAYS

 

[dcentity2000]

Men are always correct.

Come to think of it, I rest my case



Rich::

 

[MariettaC]

Are men always wrong? More often than not.

 

[djcruz4fun]

in a word yes

 

[mtblujeans]

I always knew I got on DFIC's last nerve....but, the OP has been holding up pretty darn good!

 

[Duckfan-in-Chicago]

I always knew I got on DFIC's last nerve....but, the OP has been holding up pretty darn good!

You really never got on my last nerve till you posted DFIC and it took me 10 minutes to figure out who the heck you were talking about.

Dear Fiancees Inbred Child
Dear Fathers ingrown chest hair
Dear Father-Inlaw's Cat

 

[mtblujeans]

You really never got on my last nerve till you posted DFIC and it took me 10 minutes to figure out who the heck you were talking about.

Dear Fiancees Inbred Child
Dear Fathers ingrown chest hair
Dear Father-Inlaw's Cat

I am so, so sorry! Please accept my heart-felt apologies!!

 

[boomhauer]

Well, I just talked to my wife who's still at work. She told her mother not to let my step-son come downstairs with me when I got home. Nice.

In any event, I told her what bothered me wasn't her flipping out on me, but her nasty email. Then she says, I just misunderstood it. So I told her as my wife, that she didn't think that would hurt me. She admitted that's why she did it. All I'm looking for is an apology. I kept telling her that too. She knows she's wrong, and was admitting it, but with no remorse or empathy whatsoever. For 10 minutes, I keep telling her, this is exactly what's upsetting me. Her only response: "I don't know what you want me to say", in the most sneary, talking down type way you can imagine.

She absolutely REFUSES to apologize and feel bad about what she said. Good god, if this were me, I'd be a dead man.

Thank you all for your replies. I'll say this. I don't know exactly how this is going to end up. But all of this has made me feel no guilt whatsoever about going to Disney in February by myself. I have a lot of thinking to do. I feel completely disrespected, insulted, and humiliated right now. This is not the way I want to live MY life.

 

[minnie56]

Y E S !!!!

 

[minnie56]

These are early days...

Tell your wife how you feel and that you feel her behaviour was unreasonable. Her expectations were not acceptable.

Hopefully, after some time to mull it over she will see that as well and say those "Oh so difficult" I'm sorry words..

Good Luck! Marriage is a journey...keep working at it and talking it through. I say this after almost 30 years!

 

[mtblujeans]

....Thank you all for your replies. I'll say this. I don't know exactly how this is going to end up. But all of this has made me feel no guilt whatsoever about going to Disney in February by myself. I have a lot of thinking to do. I feel completely disrespected, insulted, and humiliated right now. This is not the way I want to live MY life.

Ok then, in theory, she is mean to you because she does not feel you understand her point of view or you are sympathetic enough to her needs....? Yes or no? Rather than think of ways of hurting her back....think of ways of getting her out of her 'defensive zone'! Let's say divorce is not an option (hypothetically) and this action-reaction has to be stopped....

 

[boomhauer]

Ok then, in theory, she is mean to you because she does not feel you understand her point of view or you are sympathetic enough to her needs....? Yes or no? Rather than think of ways of hurting her back....think of ways of getting her out of her 'defensive zone'! Let's say divorce is not an option (hypothetically) and this action-reaction has to be stopped....

I'm not saying or doing anything else. Clearly, it will be misinterpreted by her. I'm gonna shut my mouth, take my man-pill, and let it go. I leave for Florida in 2 months. I think a week away will help provide me with the answers I'm looking for.