Very interesting discussion about the dining package. My family LOVES the dining plan. We have never "paid" for it in the past. We have gone during free dining with our five kids and my nephew. It is so nice as a parent not to have a debate over food choices at every meal. I think that's why families, in particular, like the dining plan. Having 6 children at WDW with free dining is a big cost saver.
My kids never get a paid beverage when we eat out. We also never order desserts or appetizers. When we eat out we always have a discussion on what menu items they can order. They often want something that is not in our budget.
It's truely a vacation when my kids can order any menu option.
I totally understand how singles or couples do not see the value. Just ask any mother and she will tell you how the dining plan makes a Disney vacation less stressful.