Tigger's Ally: we have eaten at Via Napoli several times on the deluxe dining plan. The only restriction we had on appetizer-ordering was that appetizer items on the menu that say "serves 2" must be ordered & shared by 2 people on the dining plan. Here's the list of Via Napoli appetizers from allears.net:
Fritto di Verdura - crisp fried vegetables, marinara piccante $7.00
Gamberetti Fagioli - jumbo shrimp, cannellini bean salad, extra virgin olive oil, lemon juice $9.00
Eggplant Caponata - eggplant salad with olives, capers, pignoli nut, tomatoes, and raisins $7.00
Prosciutto e Melone - parma ham, cantelope $9.00
Salami e Provolone - dry cured sausage, imported provolone cheese $9.00
Mozzarella Caprese - vine-ripened tomato, fresh milk mozzarella $9.00
Antipasti
Arancini - fried risotto balls filled with mozzarella and meat ragu $10.00
Calamari Fritti - corn-crusted rings served with spicy tomato sauce $14.00
Tortellini in Brodo - meat tortellini in broth $8.00
Minestrone - vegetable & cannelini bean soup with basil pesto $8.00
Insalato del Contadino - cucumber, fennel, green beans, red wine vinaigrette $10.00
Fritto Misto - an assortment of just-fried seasonal vegetables, calamari & cheese. Serves 2 people. Arancini, mozzarella, calamari, melanzane, asparagi, zucchini, artichoke, pomodoro piccante sauce $26.00
As you can see almost all of the items are for one person to order. So usuing your example, you could order the salad (Insalato) and your wife could order the soup (Minestroni), no problem. Note the last item ( Fritto Misto) says "serves 2 people". If you ordered this, it would count as the appetizer credit for both of you so that would be the only appetizer the two of you could order with your dining plan credit.) By the way, this appetizer is HUGE. Hubby & I have ordered this one and have never come close to finishing it...it could easily serve 3 people.