There were no AAA discounts available when I booked (and none since). I'm paying rack right now, and like *an idiot*, I bought tickets because everyone said the prices were going up.

Ah well, Live and learn.
But if anyone gives up their AAA room, I'm hoping to at least get that.
I had this same situation in regards to room only and tickets and was able to work it out and get a big discount! I think you can get a package discount, too, just need a little luck with some good timing! About 3 weeks ago I booked a room at CBR. Can't book AAA package through Disney, so I booked room only ressie with AAA and then, because CM said tickets would go up in a few days, I bought 10 day tickets separately. Then, I realized I may have jumped the gun as far as getting a package discount if those came out before room only. So, finally I called and asked and the CM said I could combine my tickets and room into a package if I called to apply a code, that they could always do things behind the scenes, as he put it, to make things into what I wanted. So, I was happy about that, although that meant I would lose my lower priced tickets. Butit was only about $36 more for same tickets, new price. I actually ended up switching to 9 base tickets cause there was only one day we might hop, and we really wouldn't go to a park on last day there, either. We can always upgrade.
So, Thur codes came out and I was able to use the DGL code. The great CM I got was able to make a package by taking the AAA discount off my room only ressie, and combining my room with the tickets I'd already purchased, no problem! At rack rate, my room/tickets priced out at $2281.78 w/ tax and insurance of 133.90 included. With the DGL code, the same trip priced out at
$1613.62, savings of $668!!!
Btw, my AAA rate on room only plus tickets with 10 hoppers was $1995. The code saved me $305 over my triple AAA rate if I adjusted it for the switch in tickets. But I keep with the Disney math and look at it as the total money saved is off the rack rate, if I didn't know about or wasn't able to get any discount!
So, my advice it to find a code such as the DGL one I used and keep calling everyday! And tell the CM that you want to combine your room only with your tickets for a package instead of how you had booked it!

Rooms may open as people change or upgrade, and as peoples 45 days pymts are due and they change their plans, etc.
Now that I wrote this I'm not sure I read your post correctly, but I'll post anyway and hope this makes sense and is helpful.
