Hey now, Not all of us wear panties on these boards. I wear briefs and sometimes boxers.
I have never figured out how to quote multiple people. I do not have designer anything. this vaca is our only luxury. and everyone is welcome to their opinions. And I haven't paid dues every year while recieving extra assistance. the assitance is a fairly new and hopefully temporary thing for us. as i know how we are looked at by some because of it even though it really has nothing to do with who we are. but my kids come before other people's quick opinions. my husband got laid off after over 10 years with the same company. we thought we had made it through the danger zone but had not. he was one of the lucky ones to find a new job and is always looking for something better and yes we both have college educations. we are not one of those families that just take and never give. we had an unavoidable situation. in one minute everything can change. these help systems are set up for people like us..who need some temporary help. and it is sad that so many abuse it and give the rest of this stigma.
I believe it does. Based on the information I found, it seems to fall into the category of 'other cash assets'.Doesnt owning DVC be the same as cash assests? It is property. How do you qualify owning that?
I completly do not understand how that is possible as here in Canada when you file taxes you cannot get back any more money than what you paid in taxes...........there are deductions you can claim to lower your taxable income but that is it. Your montly child tax cheque does increase if you are low income but not enough to travel on.
I believe it does. Based on the information I found, it seems to fall into the category of 'other cash assets'.
Here are the rules http://www.dhhs.nh.gov/dfa/documents/assistance.pdf
And here's the application http://www.dhhs.nh.gov/dfa/documents/assistance.pdf
I wish I could say I was shocked, but I'm not.
OP--No one is entitled to a Disney vacation, unless they can afford to pay for it. And that does not include paying for it with everyone else's tax dollars. A trip to WDW is not a right, it is a luxury. I never went to WDW as a child, in fact my first trip was at 29 years of age. I survived my childhood just fine. It is understandable that you want to give your kids the world, every parent does. It is not understandable that you believe that you should be able to use government assistance to take a luxury trip.
I honstly don't want to start any kind of argument, so I just want to get that out first.... but my question is, how is it that you think everyone is living in an Ivory Tower by being
1. honest
2. concerned that the OP is taking what she claims to be precious money and blowing it on a luxury vacation
3. using this precious money on anything BUT taking care of her children.
I mean, really ? You don't find it the least bit upsetting at all? My husband and I work non stop, save our money, put money in an emergency fund, don't go on vacation every year. I know families that don't have alot of money, but they scrimp and save in order to go to Disney...WHEN THEY CAN AFFORD TO. They stay at the values or off property. But you seriously are defending someone on food stamps staying at a deluxe for 9 days ? I just find that very confusing. There isn't anyone I know that if they had their last dime, would choose to blow it on something like Disney. They would choose clothes for their kids, nutritious food, gas for the car, medical , etc. But I guess everyone's priorities are different.![]()
Dont know how they got around not claiming this. They usually check everything in your background including your bank accounts. I am really burning right now. UGH!!![]()
I agree. sorry to some pp's we all have our own opinion,and I am not against ALL govt. help for THOSE WHO NEED IT. but if I had a DVC contract,and couldn't afford food for my kids, I know what I'd choose..... So no sorrow for OP here,it's not beating a dead horse,it's frustration over such an incredibly narrowsighted question in the first place.I don't recall reading where the OP was crying from the comments, but if so, perhaps she's crying because the truth hurts.
The OP did state earlier in the thread (just checked, it was her post on page 3) that the DVC was a gift. I wonder if that's how they get around owning it, maybe it's in the name of the person who 'gifted' it to them. However they're doing it, it's not right![]()
She said it was gifted many years ago, long before their situation. So I am asumming at some point it had to be put in their name.
I really love the disboards. I do. But sometimes some of you are really mean (borderline bullies). Some of you sit behind your computers and type whatever you FEEL. Its easy to judge someone on food stamps low income are often vilified. . Who are YOU to say who should or shouldnt go to Disney? whatever their financial situation. I think its sad when adults act like this. Put a mirror in front of yourself. Critique the person in the mirror. Have some compassion. Flame away - I have thick skin.
You would think so. I just can't figure out how her state did not find this asset. That's a pretty big asset for them to look over![]()
She said it was gifted many years ago, long before their situation. So I am asumming at some point it had to be put in their name.
Seriously???
If it doesn't bother you that this family is on assistance and taking a pretty deluxe vacation, feel free to send them a check.
We've been pretty blessed. Our family has been to WDW 4 of the past 5 years. Things that were beyond our control have changed dramatically my husband's income and we just could not afford to go this year. I also work and have taken a new job with twice the hours and we're still not sure we can manage a trip next year. My dd really wanted to go for her senior year, but it likely won't happen.
I guess I should go sign up for food stamps and use all that money I would have spent on food to fund a Disney trip.![]()
I really love the disboards. I do. But sometimes some of you are really mean (borderline bullies). Some of you sit behind your computers and type whatever you FEEL. Its easy to judge someone on food stamps low income are often vilified. . Who are YOU to say who should or shouldnt go to Disney? whatever their financial situation. I think its sad when adults act like this. Put a mirror in front of yourself. Critique the person in the mirror. Have some compassion. Flame away - I have thick skin.
DJM I appreciate you kind spirit in your posts,I really do, but this isn't about 'low income people'not deserving a Disney trip, the REALITY is it's a costly trip,and if you can't afford it except using other peoples' money fraudulently then you should plan something else! Like....what if I can't afford to take my kids to WDW this year? (b/c I can't right now) Would you be ok with sharing your hard earned paycheck if I just up and asked you to give it to me for a free trip to a place YOU can't afford?
maybe you wouldn't mind sharing, but I have to assume that I'm not in an ivory tower,or just assuming I know things, the OP has multiple posts about taking welfare money,owning DVC,and NOT being able to pay for regular food for her kids! I don't feel like a bully for saying the truth,which is not everypne can afford to go. And OP clearly can,b/c I am helping to pay for it. I'm not ok with that.
I don't care if you sign up for food stamps. That's your business. Knock yourself out. The OP stated that the DVC was a gift. Like many people on hard times, they are hopeful that things would get better. Maybe they will, maybe not, it's really not my business. The OP asked a simple question. Answer the question or not, but this thread is REAL personal. Lines are crossed, feelings are hurt. I hate bullying, and I'm sorry when you have threads breaking down points and cost, almost out-right calling her a bad parent, irresponsible (financially), forgery (assets), and a few other things I can't think of, yeah - in my opinion (which is not worth a hill of beans) this is cyber bullying. If you read this thread on a Teen message board, most of us would think it was. The teen asked a question, maybe it was stupid to those on the board, but to write the things Ive read on this thread is too much.