alisonbestford
<font color=990066>Can cope with the dentist after
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Hi there,
I know this question has been asked over and over, albeit in different forms, but I'd appreciate some views please.
Myself, DD (age 6) and DH have a family holiday booked to Florida in January 2005.
When DH was 20 (he's now 37) he got into a fight with his friend over a girlfriend, took himself to the police station the next day to own up and was given a one year conditional discharge for ABH.
We've travelled to the US 3 times in the past 5 years, always ticking the 'no' box on the green visa waiver form as he thought the incident was 'spent'.
After reading about the extra security checks in the US I've started worrying about whether he should apply for a visa.
If at all possible I'd like to avoid having to do this as DH has a brain tumour (he's had it for 14 years) and, although stable, is quite simply not well enough to endure a 240 mile round trip to the Embassy in London where he may have to sit around for 3 or 4 hours waiting for an interview!
As his registered carer I should be able to gain admittance to the Embassy with him but I'm concerned as he tires very easily and a normal day is only a few hours long.
We anonymously rang the Embassy to see if he could apply by post but he was just told that he would have to attend and was given a ticking off for ticking the wrong box in the past!!
I'm torn between him ticking the green form as he has previously or putting him through a rather strenuous, stressful weekend (we'd have to stay in London overnight) if it's unnecessary. Then again, I'm a worryer so neither do I want to be panicking that he'll be turned away at the airport
Before anyone asks how he can possibly cope with travelling to WDW if he tires so easily, he spends most of his time in the hotel room and we meet up in the late afternoon, communicating by mobile phone throughout the day. We also have friends in Orlando who allow him to 'chill' at their house.
Any help or advice would be much appreciated.
Thank you.
Alison

I know this question has been asked over and over, albeit in different forms, but I'd appreciate some views please.
Myself, DD (age 6) and DH have a family holiday booked to Florida in January 2005.
When DH was 20 (he's now 37) he got into a fight with his friend over a girlfriend, took himself to the police station the next day to own up and was given a one year conditional discharge for ABH.
We've travelled to the US 3 times in the past 5 years, always ticking the 'no' box on the green visa waiver form as he thought the incident was 'spent'.
After reading about the extra security checks in the US I've started worrying about whether he should apply for a visa.
If at all possible I'd like to avoid having to do this as DH has a brain tumour (he's had it for 14 years) and, although stable, is quite simply not well enough to endure a 240 mile round trip to the Embassy in London where he may have to sit around for 3 or 4 hours waiting for an interview!
As his registered carer I should be able to gain admittance to the Embassy with him but I'm concerned as he tires very easily and a normal day is only a few hours long.
We anonymously rang the Embassy to see if he could apply by post but he was just told that he would have to attend and was given a ticking off for ticking the wrong box in the past!!
I'm torn between him ticking the green form as he has previously or putting him through a rather strenuous, stressful weekend (we'd have to stay in London overnight) if it's unnecessary. Then again, I'm a worryer so neither do I want to be panicking that he'll be turned away at the airport

Before anyone asks how he can possibly cope with travelling to WDW if he tires so easily, he spends most of his time in the hotel room and we meet up in the late afternoon, communicating by mobile phone throughout the day. We also have friends in Orlando who allow him to 'chill' at their house.
Any help or advice would be much appreciated.
Thank you.
Alison
