So i was looking at the DxDDP today and notices this nice little section:
"Your Disney Deluxe Dining Plan allows each person in your party to trade meals for special dining experiences that your family will remember for a lifetime. See the exchanges below:"
So it appears that Disney has no problem, and kind of encourages the trading of meals with people in your party.
Still morally gray to use for people outside your party, but it appears the kid credits only for kids issue is cleared up with Disney's own verbiage.
Nope. Look at this part:
Disney Deluxe Dining Plan
With your Deluxe
Disney Dining Plan, for each night of your package, each Guest in your party (ages 3 and up) receives:
3 Meals
Choose from select Walt Disney World Resort table-service or quick-service restaurants for all 3 of your meals.
Each adult or child table-service meal includes:
1 appetizer (lunch and dinner only), 1 entrée and 1 dessert (lunch and dinner only)
1 single-serving, non-alcoholic beverage
Or
1 full buffet
Each quick-service meal includes:
1 entrée or 1 complete combo meal
1 single-serving, non-alcoholic beverage
2 Snacks
Examples of snacks are:
1 frozen ice cream novelty, popsicle, fruit bar, popcorn scoop (single-serving box), single-serving bag of snacks, single piece of whole fruit, 20-oz. bottle of Coke, Diet Coke, Sprite or Dasani water, 22-oz. fountain soft drink or juice, 12-oz. coffee, hot chocolate or hot tea, single-serving prepackaged milk or juice
Children ages 3-9 must order from a Children's Menu where available. Plan must be purchased for entire length of stay and for the entire party (ages 3+).
Meals are non-transferable between party members and expire at midnight on day of check-out.
I will agree, it seems very clear what Disney wants. What guests can get away with, that is something different.