Another lovely day in Oklahoma. . .

I don't know him but losing your mother under even best of circumstances (are there any) is horrible Hopefully he can cope & come back.
Very true. Whether someone goes through it with the gentle help of friends and or family, a support group or therapy (sometimes a combination) the main thing is that the person grieving isn't going it alone. My hope and prayer is that he finds some avenue of helpful support in his town, and that he checks back in here when he's ready. His ALDIO friends care and are thinking of him.:goodvibes
 
I lost mine slowly to cancer & altzheimers even seeing coming was brutal.

Hopefully he comes here to people who have been there done that.

God bless in any event.
 

I lost mine slowly to cancer & altzheimers even seeing coming was brutal.

Hopefully he comes here to people who have been there done that.

God bless in any event.
I am very sorry for your loss. I've heard alzheimers termed the long goodbye, and experiencing that must have been so difficult. Sending gentle hugs your way. :hug:
 
I am very sorry for your loss. I've heard alzheimers termed the long goodbye, and experiencing that must have been so difficult. Sending gentle hugs your way. :hug:

Thank you. It is more a sad goodbye. At the end she thought I was her sister. She loved my DH as her DH, he was wonderful with her. His DM is nearing her end with heart so trying to return the love.
 
I lost mine slowly to cancer & altzheimers even seeing coming was brutal.

Hopefully he comes here to people who have been there done that.

God bless in any event.

Sorry for your loss.

I don't have a close relationship with my mother which isn't the norm. But I'm very, very close to my dad and would be inconsolable when he goes if losing my nan is anything to go by.
 
Well the big turkey dinner was delightful! For some reason we bought a 20 pound turkey for 4 adults/2 children(one of whom ate zero turkey) so there's plenty leftover. DD will be preparing a couple of large batches of a casserole we make called Mexican Lasagna. It's really more of a turkey tetrazzini type dish but it's yummy. Lots of cheese/noodles/cream of mushroom/onion/green chiles...what's not to like?

Had my one week post-op exam today--I now have 20/30 vision in the left eye with no glasses. I'm on schedule for the right eye procedure next week.
 
Well the big turkey dinner was delightful! For some reason we bought a 20 pound turkey for 4 adults/2 children(one of whom ate zero turkey) so there's plenty leftover. DD will be preparing a couple of large batches of a casserole we make called Mexican Lasagna. It's really more of a turkey tetrazzini type dish but it's yummy. Lots of cheese/noodles/cream of mushroom/onion/green chiles...what's not to like?

Had my one week post-op exam today--I now have 20/30 vision in the left eye with no glasses. I'm on schedule for the right eye procedure next week.

Mexican lasagne sounds awesome, glad the dinner was lovely and you're on track for the second eye.
 
For the first time ever, I "early voted" today, it was awesome. The signage outside the venue was fantastic, no question about which parking lot to use, etc. Just outside the entrance to the building was a volunteer welcoming people (well just me & DW because we were the only ones there), pointing directly to the door to enter, and thanking us for coming out. Inside the building we were met by another greeter who asked us to have our DLs ready, and she literally escorted us to a bank of people checking in voters. This took approx 30 seconds, we were then escorted to the door where the voting machines were located and rec'd a brief explanation on how the machines worked--all digital, pretty much like marking an X in a box on a computer. After marking the ballots, a plastic card popped out of the voting machine, we handed it to the volunteer at the door, and we were outta there. On the way out, volunteers were thanking people for voting, and double checking that everyone got their driver's licenses returned to them at check in. Exiting the building, a volunteer once again thanked us for coming. The entire process--including the drive to/from the venue was less than 20 minutes. Unbelievable.

Whomever was in charge of organizing this should be put in charge of everything! TSA, and any other job at an airport I'm looking at you. We obviously hit a very slow time, but there could have been a thousand people in line, and it still wouldn't have taken very long to move through the process. :thumbsup2
 
For the first time ever, I "early voted" today, it was awesome. The signage outside the venue was fantastic, no question about which parking lot to use, etc. Just outside the entrance to the building was a volunteer welcoming people (well just me & DW because we were the only ones there), pointing directly to the door to enter, and thanking us for coming out. Inside the building we were met by another greeter who asked us to have our DLs ready, and she literally escorted us to a bank of people checking in voters. This took approx 30 seconds, we were then escorted to the door where the voting machines were located and rec'd a brief explanation on how the machines worked--all digital, pretty much like marking an X in a box on a computer. After marking the ballots, a plastic card popped out of the voting machine, we handed it to the volunteer at the door, and we were outta there. On the way out, volunteers were thanking people for voting, and double checking that everyone got their driver's licenses returned to them at check in. Exiting the building, a volunteer once again thanked us for coming. The entire process--including the drive to/from the venue was less than 20 minutes. Unbelievable.

Whomever was in charge of organizing this should be put in charge of everything! TSA, and any other job at an airport I'm looking at you. We obviously hit a very slow time, but there could have been a thousand people in line, and it still wouldn't have taken very long to move through the process. :thumbsup2
I was a little baffled reading this initially - I'd forgotten you don't have mandatory voting ;) Great they got you through quickly. I always go early or postal vote if I can get away with it.
 
Glad your surgery went well, Micca. I early voted this week, too, and was actually surprised how busy the place was. For previous elections, I've been in and out in less than 10 minutes. This time it took about 40 - not because of any inefficiency on the poll workers' parts but due to an increase in early voters this year. I'm glad I went ahead and did it. I have a feeling the lines on election day will be crazy. I agree with you, though. The volunteers at our place were fabulous, too. One lady made my week when she told me "thank you for voting, young lady" as I was leaving. I'm not so young anymore, so that was nice to hear!

So, Australia has mandatory voting, Jevs? How does that work? What happens if you don't vote? I'm not sure what the stats are here, but I've heard a good percentage of the population doesn't actually cast a vote. Sad, really. This election is seeing higher numbers of voter turnout already, though.
 
Glad your surgery went well, Micca. I early voted this week, too, and was actually surprised how busy the place was. For previous elections, I've been in and out in less than 10 minutes. This time it took about 40 - not because of any inefficiency on the poll workers' parts but due to an increase in early voters this year. I'm glad I went ahead and did it. I have a feeling the lines on election day will be crazy. I agree with you, though. The volunteers at our place were fabulous, too. One lady made my week when she told me "thank you for voting, young lady" as I was leaving. I'm not so young anymore, so that was nice to hear!

So, Australia has mandatory voting, Jevs? How does that work? What happens if you don't vote? I'm not sure what the stats are here, but I've heard a good percentage of the population doesn't actually cast a vote. Sad, really. This election is seeing higher numbers of voter turnout already, though.

By law you have to enrol to vote, can do it as young as 16 but not allowed to vote until you hit 18. Not voting is an offence and you'll be fined if you don't have a valid excuse (fines are low start at $20 unless it goes to court). There are exemptions i.e. people serving a prison sentence longer than 3 yrs lose their right to vote until release. There is a percentage of people that never enrol and have never voted, I'm unsure what they do or if they can catch them, there is also a percentage who never enrolled by 18 but enrolled when they were more mature, again, I'm not sure if anything happens to them, but I'm guessing not.

Most people enrol as it's a rite of passage when you hit 18 - drive, drink, and vote - hopefully not all together!

And I agree with you re: how sad it is that people don't vote. I have the view that men and women died in order for me to have a voice - however small.
 
I always go early or postal vote if I can get away with it.

I don't think we're civilized enough for that ;) I gotta think on-line voting will happen at some point. I'm glad we went yesterday, I think election day (next Tuesday) could be hectic.

DGD #2 turns 4 on Sunday. Party is at her house, DD has arranged for a bouncy castle for the front yard. Burgers & Brats will be served, I volunteered to make a hash brown casserole. It's an efficiency food...what other dish has about a 1000 calories in every spoonful? :p
 
DH & I voted by mail. We can vote at the park across the road from our development. There was no line at all for the primary, but I like having the paper in front of me & being able to research all the amendments, etc. to make an informed decision. When I was younger, my Dad's family was really into politics. We always knew who & what to vote for, before going to vote. I don't keep up with the political scene anymore. I need to be able to cheat, with last minute research. :laughing: DS voted early, when he was here & had a chance.

On another note, I hope Willy is on a boat somewhere drinking his rum & cokes & resting his body & mind. :boat:
 
Micca, your Thanksgiving dinner sounded great. Do you mind sharing your DD with the rest of us to cook for the holidays? :laughing:

I miss being around family for holidays. (We normally only go up for Christmas.) DH made our reservation for Thanksgiving dinner yesterday. I used to cook a huge meal with a table full of dishes for DH, DS & I. I liked for us to have everything my fairly large family in NC always has. My health makes cooking like that impossible now, so we've been eating our for several years. Hopefully, this year's meal will be better than last. Our meal was $200+, with a very reasonable bottle of wine, for three of us & was barely edible. This year we decided to go for fun, rather than fine dining, & made a reservation at an Irish restaurant/pub. They're serving a traditional, Thanksgiving meal & having live, Irish music. If nothing else, we'll have a good time listening to the music & catching up with DS.
 
Micca, your Thanksgiving dinner sounded great. Do you mind sharing your DD with the rest of us to cook for the holidays? :laughing:

I miss being around family for holidays. (We normally only go up for Christmas.) DH made our reservation for Thanksgiving dinner yesterday. I used to cook a huge meal with a table full of dishes for DH, DS & I. I liked for us to have everything my fairly large family in NC always has. My health makes cooking like that impossible now, so we've been eating our for several years. Hopefully, this year's meal will be better than last. Our meal was $200+, with a very reasonable bottle of wine, for three of us & was barely edible. This year we decided to go for fun, rather than fine dining, & made a reservation at an Irish restaurant/pub. They're serving a traditional, Thanksgiving meal & having live, Irish music. If nothing else, we'll have a good time listening to the music & catching up with DS.

DD likes to cook, and she is persnickety about how food is prepared, so she's the boss when it comes to the big meals (when she's in town.) I don't know what all she does to the turkey, but I know it includes an entire bottle of champagne (in the bird, not DD.)

I think going out for the big meal sounds good, especially the Irish pub atmosphere.
 













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