I just wanted to add, Jeff in Big D had some really good advice on the last page. It is always best, for future reference, to try and find a way to 'run into' the object of your interest
outside of the workplace if at all possible.
The problem with the workplace is that you never really know if the interest is personally aimed at you or just professional courtesy, unless they are really obviously flirtatious. Lots of room for miscommunication.
They are in an awkward position because they cannot easily get away from you without snubbing you. After all, you are a customer. Also, if they are not interested, it's sometimes hard to get the point across without coming across as ignorant or unprofessional.
They are sort of taken off guard (not feeling all that pretty when you are working, especially waiting tables). You, on the other hand, have taken the time to primp and polish. If you see the person outside of work, especially somewhere she has gone to hang out (as jeff in big D suggested), she will feel like she is in a better position and be in a more receptive mood. When she is working, she has a thousand things on her mind. Outside of work, you have a better chance of getting her full attention.
And lastly, Jeff is right, waitresses get hit on all of the time. I was, even when I was married (I always wore my rings, but somehow they overlooked that). If you can find a way to see her outside of work and you have upped your odds significantly.
Just thought I would add some tips, from a former waitress and long-time woman
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