**An Homage to Delswife... Our "Trip of a Lifetime 01/07-01/16" (Pre-Trip)***

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Pre-planning (3 months out):

I cannot even begin to tell you how much I agonized over where we were going to stay. Although we do fairly well financially, we certainly don’t have thousands upon thousands of dollars to spend. I narrowed it down to a deluxe hotel (if you could even call that narrowing down). But I also knew I wanted to stay at Universal Studios, too. What days where? And how many of each? Arghhhh!! I poured over the virtual tours on the WDW site, carefully scrutinizing each picture. Are the colors right? Do I like the lobby? How about transportation? What are the on-site restaurants like? I had seen and walked through the Poly in the past, as well as the WL. Each one left a fabulous impression. I wasn’t so hot for the stuffiness of the GF, and the Contemporary simply wasn’t my style. Since we don’t have kids, I wanted something beautiful and quiet and romantic. AKL was fairly new and looked enticing...

“Steve? What do you think???” (silence...cricket, cricket... chirp, chirp) Then, I received the devastating blow of an answer, “I don’t care. Whatever you want.” I couldn’t believe it! No opinion??? How could that possibly be?? Didn’t it matter what the view outside the window was? Didn’t he need to know what was on the menu at each resort? Didn’t he care what color the carpet was in our room????

(sigh) Apparently not. It didn’t take long for me to understand that I was to be in complete and total charge of this trip. He wanted simply to show up. I didn’t know whether to wail in panic and frustration, or to rub my hands together in glee. I found myself nervously falling somewhere in between.

Until, that is, I discovered these message boards. Omigod... let me first start out by thanking all of you for your words of wisdom and your profound expertise. However – I was soon dismayed to discover that I could not find any two of you that agreed on the same thing! I became obsessed with everyone’s opinions!! One person thought the AKL was a bit boring... another person thought the WL was too loud... another one thought that the Poly smelled too musty. And THEN I came across those horrid posts about the banana spiders! (Do you know what I’m talking about?) I can’t even begin to regale you with the tales of my many ups and downs (not to mention sleepless nights!) as a result of what I read on these boards. One day I was on cloud nine, and the next I was convinced our trip was going to be a disaster and that I’d end up scarring us for life. I had truly gone insane. They should have support groups for the newbies on the DisBoards. God help me.

Pre-planning (two months out):

Oh, but how much difference a month can make. Let me assure you that now, I am an expert. I know how the codes work. I have read all about the pros and cons of concierge. I know which resort has what kind of transportation, and I not only own every single 2005 WDW book out there, but they are all carefully highlighted with notes in the margins. I managed to determine that due to the WDW Marathon (and possible higher than average crowds for this time of year), we’d do the first three days at Universal Studios, and then move over to WDW. I also made a decision that we’ll be staying at the Portofino Bay Hotel in US and the AKL in WDW. Sure, I may change my mind, but the ressies are booked!

And now I even have my BDP code for our AKL room. I had originally booked it under the AP rates, figuring we could buy them just for the hotel discount. But I soon realized when the BDP codes came out; we’d save even more money by doing that instead. That way we would just get a 4 day park-hopper pass and just pay the extra $15 for the room. Still a very significant savings over AP passes and AP rates. I was VERY pleased. Rack rates for our standard Savannah room were almost $280 a night. I’ve got it now for $168. Still no Entertainment codes for PBH at Universal, and I don’t have AAA. Steve will flip when he finds out how much we are paying for that room. But I keep reading that it’s quieter than the other two (even still... if the other two US hotels were significantly cheaper, I’d switch. But there isn’t that much of a difference). Maybe the resort staff will help me hide my bill? Perhaps they can slip it under the door disguised as a newspaper? Or maybe I can have them create a “pretend” invoice and then I’ll sneak downstairs to take care of the real one. Surely they’ve encountered this situation before. =) We’ll see...


Pre-planning (six weeks out):

Oh, how I loooooove watching my countdown drop lower and lower. I have become a true Dis-board member, participating in a few “conversations” every week. But all of my expertise and confidence have flown out the Haunted Mansion window. I’ve been reading some nasty things about the Portofino Bay Hotel. I’m also not too sure about the transportation at the AKL. And I just read a post about how the outdoor grounds are much more appealing at WL than at AKL. I also found out that the AKL has the smallest rooms for a deluxe resort. Yikes! I’m still trying to figure out if that matters to me or not. And where are those darn Entertainment rates for Universal Resorts??? Each night I rush home from work to hop on the ‘net and scope out everyone’s messages. Last night Steve noticed (and I’m quoting here) that my “fun, interesting internet planning” has turned me into a “maniacal, obsessive lurker.” No way! How did that happen? At that comment, I sat there staring off into space, with one half of my brain wondering if I should look into scrapping the whole thing and reserving a villa, while the other half of my brain seriously considered just calling a travel agent. Should I keep trying for perfection, or save my sanity and put it in someone else’s hands? Before I realized that I was totally dazing and that I hadn’t blinked in over two minutes, Steve patted me on the head and kissed me. “Sweetie,” he says. “Won’t you be taking away all of the magic if you fret over every single little detail and plan every tiny little thing?” Well, crap... there’s some truth in that. He IS right...but do I listen? Nah. I am young! I am determined! I am a woman, capable of (and expected to) changing my mind on a whim! I am Nala... hear me roar!! (Then watch me cry, lol!)

Pathetic-yet-still-determined, I woke up the next morning convinced that we were absolutely NOT going to pay for a three nights-stay at the PBH for over $300 a night (including tax). Especially if I’m reading posts about animal smells, moldy walls and stained carpet. We come from the city life where you can get a fabulous room at a casino for only $160 a night. That includes immaculate, lavish rooms, terry cloth robes, Bath and Body Works toiletries, fireplace, hot tub, etc. I have not read anything that convinces me PBH is worth my precious money. So I called and canceled our reservation. And in two minutes flat, it had all been wiped out of their system. Next I was on the horn to WDW. Originally I decided that we would not rent a car, but simply use the on-site transportation for each US and WDW. And maybe use a car service to switch us from one to the other. It truly wouldn’t be worth it for us to rent a car, because we wouldn’t use it. So now I’m thinking that perhaps we’ll just book those three days back at WDW (hopefully AKL with the same room added on) and maybe rent a car. It couldn’t possibly be more expensive than over $900 for the PBH for only three nights. I was almost starting to feel ripped off! I’m convinced I can keep our costs down by staying the entire ten days at WDW. Especially if I use the BDP code again. I’m also considering splitting our stay... maybe we could do those three days at the WL?? Since in my funny little head, this irrational rationalizing will never end, we’ll see what the CR recommends...

But whoops! There weren’t any rooms left but a couple of deluxes at AKL, CR and WL. “What’s a deluxe?” I asked (of course, I couldn’t believe I didn’t already know). Well, it’s bigger, and more expensive. That’s all. No concierge or anything like that (which we already decided wasn’t worth the money). It’s basically for families who have kids and need the extra space. Well, that’s not us. So I begged and pleaded and begged. Nothing. I waited three more days, and still nothing. So my choices were: I could pay rack rate for a deluxe at AKL or WL for those three days, or I could chance it and wait another couple of weeks to see if more rooms have been released under the BDP code. But as I considered the deluxe rooms at the rack rate, I realized I’m back to where I was originally – paying $300 a night for a room. I really wanted us to stay on US property for those first three nights to eliminate having to rent a car. And at least when I had my ressie with PBH, we’d get the Express Pass thingy with the two US parks. (sigh – again!) So, now, as I write this, I’m back on the phone with Loews, re-reserving our room at the PBH. All of that work, and all of that time and energy, and I ended up in the exact same spot I was originally. I AM in need of help. So here’s where it stays: Our reservation is for January 7-10 at the PBH with a deluxe king room bay view, and January 11-16 at AKL with a standard Savannah room. No more changes... end of that saga. (I think... )

By the way... I am a very strong supporter of unions. I grew up in a very democratic family, and my father was chief steward of his auto union. But I cannot even think about this impending WDW strike. I simply cannot acknowledge that scenario right now. And if I thought long and hard about how that may affect our trip, you’ll know. How will you know, you ask? Because I’ll be all over the news as the crazy lady who is standing in front of the Disney store with wide-open eye balls, making screeching noises as she pulls out her hair in clumps and karate chops anyone who walks past her. (slow karate chops, of course, ala Del and his wife!!)

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Delswife:

I HAVE to dedicate a paragraph to Delswife. I just have to say that I have never been so entertained in my life. Luckily, I long ago lost the need or the ability to compete... no one compares to Delswife. I SO BADLY want to get a t-shirt that proudly and boldly reads (in neon, glow in the dark): “Love ya. Mean it.” I vow to get one made before I leave for WDW.

So about Delswife’s trip reports. I first stumbled upon them when I was surfing the trip boards one night. Actually, I first saw the posts where someone wanted a “count” of the Delswife fans. “Delswife FANS???” How on earth could a trip report poster have “fans?” And WHY would a trip report poster have fans? So I managed to dig through all of the old posts until I found a couple of messages out of sequential order. And sure, they seemed funny and detailed. But what was so special about them, I wanted to know? I simply had no clue.

Until one Friday night when I came home from work after making my November goal before the month actually ended (which is a big thing – lots of nice money for Dis spending!). I was feeling good, and I hopped on the internet to check out the new posts. (And to see if anyone had seen any sign of ENT rates for Loews hotels yet.) I was surfing through the trip reports, and I happened to find a post with ALL of Delswife’s reports in perfect sequential order. Thanks, Zurg (or whoever took care of that for us). I read the first one, and I was hooked!! Steve was sitting next to me, and by now it’s almost 7:00 on a Friday night. Steve started to complain that he was bored. “Shhh!!” I reprimanded. “Delswife’s brother and his wife are fighting, but she refuses to say why.” Huh?... the only reply I got from him was a blank stare. As I began to load part 26, Steve bounced and pouted (not sexy for a guy, I assure you) and said, “I’m bored! Let’s go out!” I sat there quietly for a moment, trying to figure out a discreet way to bring Delswife along with me.

“I know!” I exclaimed, as if it just hit me. “Let’s go to Bailey’s!” (A local dark/pub-y restaurant that has lots of electrical outlets and allows us to hang with our computers. They also offer FreedomLink wireless, to which we have free access.) “We could have a couple of drinks, and we could bring our laptops! You can work on your new website!” Steve has a side “hobby” company, which involves him publishing science fiction anthologies, and he is always working on his website. However, he smells a rat this time around.

“Why? What do you want to do?” He asks skeptically. “I know! You want to bring Delbert’s wife with you!!!” He points to my computer accusingly.

I, of course, laugh at him. “Delbert? No way. This is not the office-space cubicle cartoon character. It’s just someone posting a WDW trip report.” I began to nonchalantly pack up my laptop.

“But are you bringing her?” Steve asked me.

“You bet!!!!” I replied with a big grin. He knew he couldn’t lose this one. Besides, I knew he was secretly happy that I suggested hanging out with our dorky laptops versus going to the movies or eating at a nice Italian restaurant. Small price to pay for Delswife.

So here we are a few hours later. I’ve got two glasses of wine in me (going on three) and I am so absorbed in Delswife’s trip reports. I simply don’t want them to end. I am reading uber slowly, in order to savor every word. Of course, I made a spectacle of myself when I read the part where dear brother left SIL in the shop wedged in between the aisle. Steve (thankfully) had gone to the bathroom, and I was laughing my high pitched “hyena” laugh... the one where my face turns red and my mouth freezes open in a big “O” and tears stream down my face. Those around me were looking at me very strangely. I didn’t care, but I’m sure they were torn between feeling embarrassed for me and wanting to know what was so funny. Hah! Too bad for them. Each time I clicked on a new report, my palms would get sweaty in anticipation, and I would squeal with glee when the page finally loaded. Let me just say that Steve got tired of this REAL quick. I did read aloud some of the better entries for him, but there’s just something about knowing the whole story from start to finish.

When I reached the final entry, it was truly like preparing for a huge void in my life. How could there actually be an end to Delswife? Could we maybe sneak her along with us? Perhaps we could just pay her a “fee” to go again so I would have something to read on the plane. I am a fast reader, and Delswife’s reports were better than anything I have read in a long, long time. Hats off to you, oh, man-panty-wearing one. You have my deepest respect and admiration. Thank you for the hours (well... “hour” - because I read them so quickly) of entertainment, tears and smiles. Disney will be a newly enhanced experience because of you. (I don’t have kids, but I will be SO aware of those with strollers!!)

So as I now read the last of her words, I just want to sit back, soak it all in, and try to compliment her story with mine. I am not in competition... I am simply a poor substitute hoping to fill the void that may be cold and empty within other Delswife fans. I do not have children, nor an evil SIL, so my report will not come close to doing her justice. So all I can say to those reading is: “Love ya. Mean it. This is a poor excuse for a part II.”

Pre-planning (one month out):

Hey! Steve is subconsciously becoming a real Disney fan. One day I was having a conversation with him, and I happened to switch topics and talk about a gal named Eleanor at my work. Steve interrupted me, and said, “Wait! What are you talking about? Eleanor? The grey blobby thing on Winnie the Poo?” (Mind you, he was dead serious.) When I realized he was referring to Eeyore, I about died. I began laughing so hard I truly thought I would pee my pants. He simply stared at me, which of course made me laugh even harder. As tears rolled down my cheeks, he looked at me quizzically and asked, “Hon, are you angry at me? Because it wasn’t that funny.” (??) Well, that just did it. I fell off the bed in howls (which scared the cats). By this time I was wheezing and sobbing from laughing so hard that I couldn’t do anything but roll around on the floor and snort. Steve just continued to stare, and finally said, “Now come on... what happened? Why are you laughing so hard? Did you fart? Because last time you laughed this hard you farted.”

Omigod... too funny. It was such a classic moment. If I ever live long enough to see my past through a wormhole camera, I’ll be watching that one again.

So, I’m still keeping an eagle eye out for those entertainment rates for PBH. Many people said that it’s possible they may not come out. I’ve been so proud of how I managed to keep the cost down of the trip so far, and this hotel room is a big thorn in my side. But I digress... (IT HAD BETTER BE SOMETHING SPECTACULAR, THOUGH!!)

Since my employer is picking up my round-trip airfare, all we had to do is purchase Steve’s. I got my fight confirmation today from our travel department, and I’m on a nice big NorthWest jet on a non-stop flight. So I immediately I hopped on Orbitz, and somehow managed to book Steve’s on the same flight home, in the seat next to me! I’m really surprised that worked out, because I’m actually flying into Orlando on January 3rd. (I’m staying four days at the Peabody for work, remember?) Then Steve will work a full week through Friday, January 7th, and then take an evening flight out. Since my day will end (for work) at noon on that Friday, I plan to maybe shop with some of my co-workers and then check in and relax until he arrives. Oooh! I can’t wait...

I’ve just purchased our US park tickets (2-Day, 2 Park), and tonight I will be going online to buy our WDW Park Hopper tickets. All that is left for a balance is our three night stay at PBH. I didn’t secure it with a deposit – only with my credit card number. (Word to the not-so-wise: I found out that if you book your reservation on the phone with Loews or US, then they will need a one-night’s deposit. If you do it online through the website, then they only keep your credit card number to secure it – no deposit.) Since our lodgings are pretty much taken care of, next I will focus on our meals and attractions. Steve made it very clear that he didn’t want to see and do every kiddie attraction, which I am fine with. But he also said that he would like to keep some spontaneity in this trip, so he was against me planning any meals or making any maps of the parks. I argued that we wouldn’t want to wait in line for dinner every night, especially the restaurants that we really want to experience. So we both compromised – I’ll plan for three nights’ dinners (out of the 9 night stay). And I’ll only make “suggested” lists of the rides/attractions we want to hit just so that we don’t miss anything (and then bribe him to do everything else). I do have to admit Steve was right about all of it. I suppose it wouldn’t be any fun to have an itinerary that says, “Turn right here... go into this store. Continue left to this attraction. Etc, etc.” I could maybe see the appeal of that if you have children, but again – he’s right. Just don’t you tell him I told you that!! Lol =)

CRAP!!! I am not ready. I thought I was panicked before? I don’t have enough luggage! And, I need some formal and dressy things for my work events. But I also need casual for the parks and the rest of our vacation. And is it supposed to be warm? Cold? In between? So does that mean that I have to pack my entire wardrobe? And how much room do I leave in the suitcases for purchases and souvenirs? I need a new toiletry bag, and I could really use a couple of new t-shirts and shorts. But how can I buy those when the weather here is snowy and 24 degrees? Does that mean I buy them online? And I almost forgot about our two cats. No one is available to watch them for the week. I wonder, can I bring them with me? Would they fit in the suitcase?? (Just kidding) I’m wondering if I can buy a feeder and a water container that will hold enough for a week. My first approach at addressing any of these issues was to hop on e-bags.com and buy some luggage pieces before the Christmas season robbed me of the shipping window of opportunity. I suppose I could always go OUT and buy luggage, but who has time for that?

Steve and I had a small tiff about tennis shoes. He has this gawd-awful pair of ancient New Balance that he got in 1989 - I swear to you. He has been wearing them since, and he said that he is not willing to buy a new pair for the trip. He’s afraid of the “new shoe blister.” (Now c’mon... how “Seinfeld” is that? A new shoe blister on sneakers? It’s totally made up. Next thing you’ll know we’ll be planning for “Festivus”.) I rolled my eyes, because I could plainly see that these old shoes were very worn and I reminded him that he has always complained about his feet hurting. “What if they’re not enough support for your feet and you get tired and can’t walk any more?” His reply was, “Well, then we’ll just head back to the hotel and rest.” Apparently, I must’ve given him a look of absolute horror, because he gently sat me down and looked me in the eye. “Em... you are getting crazy over this. If we’re tired, and we want to head back to take a nap, then there is nothing wrong with us heading back to take a nap. This is our vacation – not a contest. No one’s saying we can’t go back to the parks in the evening, but I don’t want you to be freaking out if I don’t do something according to your plan. Let’s just simply have fun, relax, and play it by ear... okay?”

He was so right. After that, I only let myself fret and worry during the hours of 7am to 10pm. (Just kidding again!) But he made me feel a thousand times better after that. Especially since he did end up going out and buying a new pair of sneakers. =) =) I did as well. I also found a neat checklist on line, which I will post under the “solo and couples board.” Since nothing on that list has to do with family items or children’s belongings, I figured it may not get a whole lot of interest here.

I’m trying to get organized and to have this all fall smoothly into place before I have to leave. Only problem is that the holidays are fast approaching, and I’m still trying to hit my yearly goal at work. Could the stress level be any higher? And what happened to those ten pounds that I wanted to lose before our trip? (I NEED to lose 45, but you know... I pretend to be a realist.) Honestly... if they had an award for “most deserved vacation,” I’m sure I would win it hands down. Steve would come in a close second. Oh, Mickey... where are you?????

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Hi Em!

I joined the DIS about 2 weeks before our WDW vacation which was NOT a great thing because even though I learned alot of good tips which worked...( like that thing from the dollar store you hang on your bathroom door to store stuff and .89 ponchos from Walmart ) I got totally taken to the cleaners $$$ wise because we didn't book our April vacation until February :earseek: :earseek: with a local TA who :scared1: booked us on a Southwest Disney package...needless to say, I really have no idea what everything ended up costing, but I think how much we paid for our lagoon view at the GF was why I got my request for a MK view!!
This year we are splitting US and WDW too. We've never been to US and have booked 3 nights at the HRH because my DH wants to go there. I also am freaking out about no FAN or ENT codes yet! I am using DU because I only have limited computer access at my job and I won't have time to hang on the phones for hours waiting for the general public codes when they come out. So I am putting that in my DU agent's hands. I just booked my airfare with SW, and am planning to grab some 4 day PH's since the MYW will be more. Starting to think about PS's too! We want to do CP for breaky as my DD15 loves Eeyore (or is it Eleanor?) :p and since we missed Fantasmic last year we want to do the dinner package. Probably do some CR restaurants since that will be our Disney home base. Last year we did all the GF restaurants except 1900 Park Fare ( no PS's available ) and they were all good, especially Narcoosee's - you and Steve would like it!

Sorry for rambling. Keep your pre-trip news coming...and buy some suitcases! Soon they will be sitting open on your living room floor and you'll put some stuff in; then take it out; put more stuff in, etc. Your kitties will love it! :cat:

Have fun!
 
Great advice about the PS's... I haven't done that yet, and am still trying to figure out what "three" restaurants I for sure want to hit. Steve is a vegetarian (I didn't mention that, but I assure you it will come up in the trip report).

Funny about my kitties - already they are hopping inside (and eating!!) my garbage bag full of dry cleaning that I have to take in. I can only imagine what it will be like having to pack with those two around. I might accidentally end up taking them along anyway, without even knowing it!! :D

BTW... did you see on the US boards (I think the US Resorts board) that someone got the PBH for $149 per night in January???? I still think it's a mistake, and that they'll end up finding out that it's $249 and they heard wrong. But for their sake, I hope not. But I have been faithfully watching and calling for those stupid codes, and nothing yet. So I don't have the faintest clue how they got that rate. Since I wrote last on my pre-trip report, I (one again!!!) switched our hotel to a plain ol' standard room at the RPH. It's not glamourous, but it's $169 per night. I was upset about not having the PBH, but at this point in time, the rate was too good to pass up. I just can't see that the extra $100 a night is worth it. That's $300!!!! We could feast at four WDW restaurants for that kind of money.

Anywhoo... thanks for reading! I'm very, very, very anxious to begin writing the "real" trip report. Stay tuned, and good luck trying to catch those great rates!!

Em
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Yeah, Loew's is pretty pathetic right now. A couple of weeks ago I could have gotten all three of our nights at the RPR for AAA rate, but DH wants to stay at HRH. 294 a night is killing me....the only AAA discount left for our stay is one of our nights, pool view and up. Ours is garden view. No availiability.
 
Looking forward to your reports! We have stayed at both PBH and HRH and loved them both. PBH was quieter, but Hard Rock had the most clever stuff (the theming was really well done). I got hard rock for $99 a night last year, so I really enjoyed it considering the bargain price!
 
Listen take it from an old married woman, don't tell your boyfriend and make a PS for every single day in the park you think you're going to be in that day. Also do the latest lunch you can, it's far cheaper then dinner. Get something sit down. This way you'll have something, if you don't make it fine, just stop at any guest service phone and cancel it. I can't tell you how many times, I saved the day by having that PS all in place when we were tired and hungry.
 
Mary Anne said:
Listen take it from an old married woman, don't tell your boyfriend and make a PS for every single day in the park you think you're going to be in that day. Also do the latest lunch you can, it's far cheaper then dinner. Get something sit down. This way you'll have something, if you don't make it fine, just stop at any guest service phone and cancel it. I can't tell you how many times, I saved the day by having that PS all in place when we were tired and hungry.


:teacher: Mary Ann, why am I not as smart as you?? You're a genius! Steve went out this morning to get coffee and a paper (after I read your post) and while he did that, I put together a list of what restaurants I want to schedule a PS for.

I will call tomorrow and have them all set up. What a great idea!!! (Sorry, Steve-O. But you'll thank me in the end - I promise!)
 
Enjoying your trip reports - I like the planning almost as much as the trip! Well no, the trip is way better, but the planning is fun too!

You'll love AKL - good call about the rental car though.

I was just going to suggest what Mary Ann did - you do not want to hang out for an hour in front of Rose and Crown waiting for a table...

You can never find good summer stuff in Toronto is winter - I always put aside some time on our first day for visiting that great outlet! (I forget the name - I don't pay attention to the directions - I just shop)

If you have as good a time together as I am sure you will, put aside a couple of hours to visit the DVC offices. We did that on our first trip as a couple (Millennium) and it has been such a great thing for us!

I am in sales too - good luck in meeting your quota, I'm sure you'll make it.

Can't wait to hear more!
 
Looking forward to reading about your trip. It will be interesting to see how your excitement and your boyfriend's relaxation moods work out. I bet he'll be in the excitement mood in no time! Have a great trip!
 












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