Am I weird?

[The Mystery Machine]

For a lack of a better word, it is inappropriate and much as it is weird considering your circumstances.

 

[NEVERENOUGHWDW]

Well Disers I think we have just crossed into Scaryville!

 

[hereyago]

There's going to be a lot of eye rolling at my house on November 20th, when my precious Edward hits the big screen again!

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Oh yes, I love me some Edward as well, even though I am 41. If slobbering over him is wrong, I don't want to be right-lol.

Humans are sexual beings as long as the crush doesn't interfere with our real relationships. But you have had problems before, you should just zip it with the comments and maybe have your dh take your kid to the classes instead.

 

[Mickey Fliers]

Wait...you have already had an affair and now you are saying OUT LOUD to your husband (who was forgiving enough to not leave you the first time) that you find another young man "precious". Not only do I think this is weird but I think you have your self on very unstable footing.

 

[chisnpeke]

Wait...you have already had an affair and now you are saying OUT LOUD to your husband (who was forgiving enough to not leave you the first time) that you find another young man "precious". Not only do I think this is weird but I think you have your self on very unstable footing.

I'm wondering this myself. Why even be married if you want other people all the time?

 

[Darsa]

Did I miss the part where she said she already had an affair? Apparently I am missing something here....

ETA: Duh, sorry, no wonder I missed it, it's the biggest post on this thread

 

[JerseyJanice]

 

[Raspberry Beret]

Wait...you have already had an affair and now you are saying OUT LOUD to your husband (who was forgiving enough to not leave you the first time) that you find another young man "precious". Not only do I think this is weird but I think you have your self on very unstable footing.

ITA!!
In light of the recent affair, IMO, you are self-destructive. How could you even begin to think that type of comment was appropriate to say to your DH who recently forgave you for cheating on him.

 

[ReneeA]

Dang this thread got even weirder than it started.

 

[CathrynRose]

Without reading the other responses (which I am sure were:

He's 18 - what's the problem?

 

[CathrynRose]

***GggggROWLlllllllll*****

 

[DisDarling]

Janes Mommy...yes, it is wierd.

 

[BuffettFan]

Ok, the choice of words (precious boy) is a little weird.....but I totally understand !
I had (have) a "crush" on a young man that is regularly around our family.
It's a joke between my husband and I....and we joke about it pretty openly. He's not at all threatened, and it IS kinda funny !
I'm sure if someof the people on here overheard some of our joking they would call it inappropriate as well.
Personally I think it would be a lot more inappropriate if I was keeping it secret !

 

[Va-bear]

Ok, the choice of words (precious boy) is a little weird.....but I totally understand !
I had (have) a "crush" on a young man that is regularly around our family.
It's a joke between my husband and I....and we joke about it pretty openly. He's not at all threatened, and it IS kinda funny !
I'm sure if someof the people on here overheard some of our joking they would call it inappropriate as well.
Personally I think it would be a lot more inappropriate if I was keeping it secret !

I tended to agree w/ this at first - it sounded like it was all in fun...buuut then....I read the quote about an affair and thought "maybe not"...

 

[LoraJ]

I tended to agree w/ this at first - it sounded like it was all in fun...buuut then....I read the quote about an affair and thought "maybe not"...

Yeah, it's really not cool to do that to her DH.

 

[diznygirl]

He's been teasing you for years about an 18 year old.. so since the boy was like 14/15/16-ish I didn't think the original scenario was all that weird.. but that definitely made it cross wayyyyy into weirdo land, with no chance at coming back.

 

[alexandria674]

I wonder if the DH mentioned anything.

 

[aprilgail2]

Yes, I think it's wierd that you've had a crush on a teenager for years, actually maybe wierd isn't the right word!
My younger brother is 18, if I ever heard one of my friends call him her "precious boy" I'd tell her she needed some help.

"Precious boy" is just downright creepy!

 

[AlexWyattMommy]

Because I did not have all the facts when I made my first post, I reserve the right to change my mind.

For MOST people, a little crush is okay. As long as it goes no further.

IF you really had a thing for this boy since he was 14/15 and you are still recovering in your marriage after your affair, you really need to cut it out.

Why are you even allowing your focus to shift off your husband?


The original question was are you weird. No, is still that answer. However the disclaimer is you should not have had those thoughts for a minor and you still need to stop and focus on your husband (if you aren't the person who's marriage is in jeopardy, you should still be sure to not let it get out of control).

 

[MinnieTink]

Oy.

Weird isn't the word. Maybe inconsiderate fits. I'm just putting myself in your DHs shoes. Ouch.

Wait, maybe weird IS the word?! My precious boy? Yyyyiiiikkkessss!