pixiewings71
<marquee><font color=deeppink>Sweet!!! Totally!!!!
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I'll respond to the OP in another post, but first I had to address this.
Is anybody here, or any friend/family member, with a poor sense of direction still lost? Forgetting the availability now of GPS - before GPS and smartphones and 3G and laptop computers: how many of you with a poor or no sense of direction still can't find your way to where you were going? Did you give up and go home? Did you get help - written directions, ask for help, call (on a pay phone) someone to come rescue you?
Were you trying to get home from somewhere unfamiliar? Did you make it? Or are you still driving around years later, looking for a familiar sight? Or did you just give up, stop somewhere that looked friendly, and started a whole new life?
I have a lousy sense of direction. In five weeks working at a new location, I've gotten lost three times trying to get home. It's not like I end up in another state, but I'm absolutely on the wrong road, going in the wrong direction, and of course I never get lost the same place/way twice. And it's not as if I have an excuse other than that lousy sense of direction. The streets in this city haven't changed in fifty years.
I also confuse east and west, north and south. The only way I'm positive of those directions is standing in the front yard where I grew up with my back to the house; even then, I'm only positive about east and west unless there's snow on the ground. And it doesnt help that 128 east/west is the same highway as 95 north/south!
But I do what's worked for me all my life: if it's safe to stop and ask for help, I do. Otherwise I drive until something looks familiar. But if I ever do give in to technology, it'll be for an actual GPS. The screen is bigger than any smart phone.
Well to be honest I rarely drove by myself to new places without someone who already knew the way. I prefer not to get lost because then I freak out and cry. lol But, if I did have to go and no one could help me get there (my other choice was to have verbal directions or hand written by someone) then I did my best and if I did get lost I would find someplace I felt safe and call for help or ask for directions. But seriously....I rarely drove myself anywhere and in fact still prefer NOT to drive in SF at all, I'm getting better at Sac just because my BFF lives there and I've been spending a lot of time with her lately, but I still prefer to use my phone for navigation. But again, I use it rarely enough that I forget I have that option sometimes.

For me, getting lost meant lots of stress and wasted time. If I have a tool in my pocket that can prevent that, why in the world would I not use it. The GPS app on my phone is free. Its more up to date then my GPS, and will not require me to buy updates. I feel much more comfortable using my GPS than stopping somewhere I am not familiar with and asking directions.
I had to chuckle about the 128/95 east west thing. I grew up in that area and know exactly what you are talking about.
This, exactly!

