I saw this topic and had to give my opinion. I have stayed on and off. I have absolutely no desire whatsoever to stay on ever again and neither does my young daughter or husband.
Here's the popular reasons why people stay in Disney hotels:
1. I can go back to my hotel to take a break.
This cracks me up. It's not like Anaheim where you really can just walk out of the rapids ride at Ca Adventure, walk into the Grand Californian through a turnstyle, press an elevator button and head up to your room. To get back to any Dis hotel in Orlando, you have to definitely either take the monorail, a boat, a bus or be in for a decently long walk. No advantage with this one that I can see. By the time you're done doing that, you can get in your car, head back to your hotel and then return in the evening. No advantage here.
2. I want to feel like I'm really at Disney.
Another funny one. I guess these people need hotel staff telling them to "have a magical day" for them to feel like they're in Disney.
3. The Disney hotels are all kid friendly.
You're in Orlando, the number one family travel destination in the US. Find me a hotel that is NOT kid friendly.
4. I can get to the parks earlier than everyone else.
True, but you can't do this every day for every park. The first time I heard this I thought it was a great idea. I figured I could just get up early, get to any park of my choice and go in before everyone else. Wrong! Certain parks have early entrance only on certain days, meaning that if it's Tuesday, it might be the day for Epcot and nothing else.
My solution? I decide what park I want to go to and check to make sure that its not an early entrance day. I then get there when it opens. I have never had a problem getting on my rides of choice.
5. I can have my souveniers sent back to my hotel.
What in the world are you people buying?
6. The hotel concierge at Disney can make my reservations for character dining.
Hello? 90 days prior to any visit, call 407-WDISNEY and ask for disney dining. Make your own reservations.
7. Disney offers the magic express and will take me directly to my hotel from the airport for free. This way I don't have to hassel with my bags and getting a cab or renting a car.
What in the world is this all about? For the price that Disney charges for their hotels versus a hotel outside of the "world", you can hire a limo service to do all of the above for you, and you don't have to get onto a bus.
8. Nobody does it like Disney.
What is it that Disney does when it comes to hotels? I've stayed at the GF and Poly and other Disney properties before I figured out all of the above. The room I was placed in was sooooo small compared to 4 star hotels in the Orlando area, yet the prices are so outrageous. Plus, there are absolutely no king beds at the Poly, yet during high season, prices run $400 plus per night!
All of the major chains offer extras like points, free stays, free breakfasts, manager's receptions, etc. When you compare, dollar for dollar what you get at a Disney hotel even with all of the so-called "extras" from Disney, you are literally giving your money away staying on property. And for what? Souvenier shipping? Early entrance?
The saddest commentary is when I read so many stories of families literally saving up their money for a Disney vacation. Rather than stay off property, they have this compelling need to want to experience the Disney vibe. Not being able to afford the Grand Floridian or other comparable property, these families will end up at one of the bargain resorts like the All Star Pop or Music, hotels that are really glorified motels. Sadly enough, a little research would get these type of families into a solid 3 star outside of the world for the price they paid for a motel experience. This would probably also give them free breakfast or snacks or something else for their hard earned money.
Remember what I said in the beginning. This is simply MY opinion.