nevermind i just spoke with them (they are sending our packet out soon and wanted to let us know it would be comming withen the next few weeks) and they said to just let them know on our info if we have any requests for things like that..and they would make a note to have some on hand...the guy was very nice and answered all my questions!he said as long as its not hard to get or outrages request no problem, something like a type of beer, no problem....my dh is looking forward to sitting down with his buddy(his best friend and wife going also) and having a drink together...they are both in law inforcement and are always working lol so we invited them along (never been) we cant wait!