I have 3 college students and 2 of them party while at school, which I don't like. I talk to them till I'm blue in the face and it just doesn't seem to sink in. My one son is over 21 and I try to explain to him all the time what could happen if he got catch buying and providing for underage students, which I'm sure he does. I'm hoping he's listening to me but we all know "parents don't know anything" at this age.
My middle son is 20 and he has gotten in trouble a couple of times with his underage drinking habits. Once again we try to explain to him what could happen if he doesn't stop. His reasoning is everyone in college does it, once again I say no they don't. Again parents don't know anything. After his last cituation for underage drinking he decided to move out of his apartment and back home and started attending the community college. Said he needed to get away from that environment, where drinking takes places several times a week. He's at home now, which is a good thing for him, helps keep him out of trouble. He reports tomorrow to begin his service hours from his last cituation, when completed all charges will be dropped.
My youngest doesn't party at his school, he's to into his course work, he aims for that 4.0 each semester, so far so good.
I just wish kids/young adults will listen to their parents, we don't have all the answers but we do know right from wrong and have more experience, which the young people haven't completely figured that out yet.
$86,000 is alot, I guess they're trying to teach the students a lesson, that they're not going to put up with that kind of behavior on or around the college campus. Officers in college towns have alot to deal with, maybe they're trying to crack down on the partying and underage drinking.