Hey all!!! The sun is shining..and it's a brisk fall morning...just the thing I needed to start my day thinking right! My husband left for his business trip...so this week should be pretty predictable and I should be able to stick to my slimfasting...I'll weigh next Monday...just afraid a weigh in today would throw me into a pit of self-pity. I know TOM is any day now and I don't want a BIG number to throw me into ticker shock. My goal is to stick to 2 slimfasts a day and healthy snacks and meals. Absolutely no junk food this week....and pushing more water.
Kathy! It sounds like you had a GREAT mini-vacation!! I agree with you that 4 days just is a teaser...you really need 3 weeks at Disney!

We were there for 8 days and 7 nights and that extra night really made us feel like we had done everything we wanted to...but we were going NON-STOP on commando speed..it'd be nice to hit things leisurely and that would take 3 weeks!

Hope you're delegating some of your work and not taking it all on yourself.
Debra...I just have NO NO NO NO willpower against baked goods..unless there is cream cheese or coconut in it...I can pass on those...but I could really ingest 4 homemade yeast rolls or 6 cookies...ugh! Hoping the baking is slowing down! Let's get to this losing place again!
Lisa!!!

Hope you have/had a great date and he was a sweetie! My girlfriend who was just married met her husband at equallyyoked....and they're very well suited for each other. Let us know that he's a nice guy and always have a back up plan in case he's a little off and you need a quick exit!

I had several dates like that...you can take pepper and sniff it to start a massive sneezing exit...you can put pretend you lost your contact and your eye is swollen shut....you can have your good friend on speed dial and if she doesn't get a ring in the first hour then she calls you and says it's an emergency and you need to help her..ya know I'm just joshing but it never hurts to keep an open door!

What is the "zeta" thing on your moniker? Didn't know if it was a sorority thing or not...have a GREAT week!
Linda...that's what moms are for...restocking their pantry and doing their laundry!

I always loved my mom restocking my college pantry!

Let's get back on plan today together!
Maria!!!! Just read your touch of divine story! I so believe in those things! So many will look at similar stories in my life and throw out "oh you're so lucky" or it's just a bizarre coincidence...but I do believe in angels helping us along our way. I hope you're feeling better today and all those tires are in good working order! Tip of the day, everyone check your tire pressure...it's one of the key steps to saving gas fuel mileage and the life of your tires! I wish I could plan out my day of eating...it's so hard for me to stick to something unless someone else does my planning and serves me...the minute I hit the fridge a craving for cheese will overtake my plan to have salad and I'll do a baked cheese on wheat....keep posting your daily plans and maybe it'll sink in with me...it really shows me portion is my problem!
Travelgirl...hope your Sunday night youth dinner went well...and you're well rested from it today!

I love children of all ages and they really inspire me in so many ways. Thanks for being there to host them!
Now a question on children....the parents came and picked up their 3 little ones last night...the parents are GEMS I mean really GEMS of people...I've met lots of folks in my time and this couple is in the top 2 % of quality, integrity, all around good stuff! Now, their kids......

...okay they're kids....I was a nanny for 3 years I've seen it all...but the level of disrespect, lying, evil mischief, hatred for each other was OUCH! The oldest is almost 7 and the middle is almost 5 and the little boy is 1...(he's an angel and not at all a problem except when his face gets in the way of their hand)...the oldest girls literally can not say a good thing about each other. They will hit, kick, pull hair, lie, be cruel, say 'shut up', and when they'd lie to me about what they'd done (I had just witnessed it and wanted them to fess up)...I'd look them in the eye and tell them that God gave me a special gift of discerning lying eyes...then they'd close their eyes and lie. I have special skills to get around their manipulation but my husband did not. Once or twice he would have to correct them and tell them to stop doing xxx behavior and they'd look him in the eye and tell him they can do whatever they want. He lost his cool with them and can't believe how disrespectful they can be. Now do I tell these great parents? I did tell them that the girls tried their best (which I do believe they did...it's just that their best is so far from being good kids) and we had to have a couple of chat sessions with them on treating each other nicely. Right before they got here the two girls were rough housing and purposefully knocked their infant brother over a table on the floor....so what do you say to these folks? It was so hard on my kids to see kids acting this way and they were the brunt of their acting out on several occasions..it was not good...my kids prayed for them last night and had alot of sympathy for them but they do not want them over again. Oh my! Any words of wisdom so that I don't say the wrong things if asked?
Tara