Today is our anniversary - number 39.

I sent flowers to DrHug at work yesterday. I'm not sure if we will go to dinner tonight or go down to the VFW hall and have potluck with the old guys....they meet on the first Friday and we have only attended a couple of meetings since DrHug joined a year or so ago. He did just get his "old soldier hat" and this will be his first opportunity to wear it. Um, let me see, nice dinner just the two of us, glass of wine, holding hands OR potluck with the old soldiers, some of whom might recognize me from work and realize I AM the complaint department for all the ills of the VA system and think it is ok to discuss all of this after the meeting. Such a hard decision!